She is about 6 months pregnant and has pushed me away. She told me not to contact her unless it's about the baby. Even tried to f**k with my head by saying " i dont know if you are the father" but I'm 100% sure. She said she won't sign any documents with me, she said she will name him, etc. Basically trying to cut me out and cut me off. I've already spoken with a lawyer and have paper work Im hesitant to file because what if she's just going through a hormonal stage. It's not uncommon for pregnant women to do this sometimes. But what I do want to do, is everything possible NOW to Win if the situation arises. I'm listing some ideas I have and would like for your input or advice 1. Document everything (pictures, receipts, picture of daily newspaper beside what ever item, paperwork, record of location) 2. Take a "new parenting course" (local program 45$) 3. Offer to babysit someone's kids 4. Hire a bi weekly cleaning lady 5. Find as many references as possible 6. Open up a trust fund for the child 7. Acquire assets like GIC's, TSFA's, Mutual Funds, etc 8. Buy her gift cards for baby clothes, etc. 9. Buy a crib and other various items. 10. Rent a new apartment with the babies own personal space 11. Go to church?
I just landed a 2nd job and will be working 18-20 hour days.
Any more ideas on how to sway the potential decision in my favor?
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