We've all been there, some time in the past (some even now), your SO comes to you with a question, you can't make a decision and umm and ahh the hell out of the answer because you're scared of her response. You're scared to answer honestly because you're worried about her response, her reaction and her anger.
I'm not talking shit test worthy questions like "Does this dress make me look fat?", I'm talking simple questions like "What do you feel like for dinner tonight?" or "Which shoes go best with this dress?".
In the case of the dinner thing, my former BP indecisive, scared self was previously guilty of answering this with lines like "I dunno, what do you feel like?", "Ummm, I dunno, ahhh, not sure" or the really dumb "Hmmm, I dunno, you choose". All answers that invariably ended up with at least a sigh, and sometimes a full blown argument.
But, you know what? You shouldn't be scared of giving an answer to questions like these.
Your SO is looking for guidance and leadership even on questions like these. She wants you to have an opinion on something, anything, to give her a reason to follow your lead. Sometimes your answers won't be what she wants but you have an opinion and she'll respect that more than she would an indecisive pussy.
You will probably pick the wrong shoes or a dinner she doesn't feel like, but I guarantee she won't get angry with you.
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