32, have been married for almost 3 years, we have a 5 month old and a 22 month old, both boys. Things have been a hurricane with two little ones. Romance was non-existent. Sex life was a in a word: embarrassing. Maybe once every 2-3 months. I had lost physical attraction in her and had also completely stopped working out and eating right myself. I was becoming one of those poor bastards I used to pity: a type B, past-his-prime, out of shape middle-aged faceless number. I do very well for myself and I used that as a crutch for not being intimate with my wife. "I can give her anything she wants, her life is perfect" is what I would tell myself to make me feel better. I found this sub today while putting my oldest son down for a nap and it WOKE ME UP. It is exactly this kick in the ass I needed (have been working out again for about 2 months now, but was still slacking terribly on the sex life). After reading the latest posts for about 20 minutes I got up, walked into the living room and gave it to her like when we were dating. It sounds weird, but I know I've already turned a corner and have re-taken the reigns in my relationship. Looking forward to learning more about the red pill. Thanks!!!!