I was recently chastised by a ‘father’ for telling my boy to be a man. More specifically I said he needed to, Suck it up – Man up and try harder next time.. My boy got upset because he was thrown out at first, the kid is a solid ball player and this is the first time he was thrown out.

As he walked back to the dugout I saw the chin quiver and his eyes were fucking furious & sad. I said what I said and smacked the top of his helmet and let it go. The kid is 6 and disappointed - whatever I know him and I know the 'tough love' is what he needed, not some pep talk or anything else.

I was enraged when this guy approached me saying this crazy weaksauce shit, I was a mix of stupefied at how gay it sounded and mad at how weak it was and that this mindset exists in many guys out there.

Here is a piece of advice for you all - Man the Fuck up.

We need to, collectively, accept our position in the animal kingdom. We are men - we have the hard labor, burden of performance, and are disposable…so fucking be it. Own that shit, make it work for you.

Don’t be like the ‘dad’ who thinks, ‘Boys should not have any stereotypical expectations on them..” – OK faggot.

We are men, yet I’m realizing that I hear ‘Man Up’ less and less frequently both here and in real life.

The world is hard? Man the fuck up – take the gift of masculinity that nature gave you and develop it. That is what TRP and MRP helps you with – it helps you develop the ability to man up.

MRP and TRP provide you with the mental resources and education to take a different approach, view things from a different perspective, and Man Up.

Some ways you can do this right now.

Stop complaining about what ever problem you have going on. I do not care if:

  • your wife is a bitch

  • kids don’t listen

  • work doesn’t recognize you

  • You’re injured

  • Sex life sucks

  • The news is pushing the feminine imperative

  • Etc. Etc. Etc.

Man the fuck up, do something about the problem and stop thinking you need to have your own special voice in this life. I don’t complain to my woman, I don’t cry to her about how sore I am, I don’t let her know how retarded the people at my work are, I (and a lot of the masculine men on this sub) do not post about how unfair the world is. We just fucking accept it and find solutions to our problems – coming here to share notes or get opinions on specific actions/ideas is how we improve.

Start owning your masculine nature, accept that ‘Man Up’ means put your fucking mind to work on doing better – raising the standard. My son could have come to me and I could have coddled him and said, ‘Hey buddy, it’s ok’ but I didn’t, because it wasn’t OK – he was pissed and that’s ok.

Sometimes things don’t fall our way, that’s no reason to get upset and feel bad about yourself because while you are sitting their moping, the world is moving on.

Let it go, whatever ‘it’ is, let it go and fucking move forward.

Look at where it is you want to be in this life and align your actions to get you there. Don't concern yourself with the 'fluff' that is specifically designed to get in your way.

I was asked about women being included in the draft - my answer - I don't care. It has nothing to do with me or my goals.

I see guys getting worked up over the divorce payments of celebrities - let it go man, don't let that shit take up space in your head - space that could be used for understanding sexual strategy or physical fitness.

The mind is open for rent, are you letting superfluous shit rent space in there or are you being selective with the tenants of your brain?

If I were you, I'd start thinking and acting like a man and expecting that of others. I would most certainly expect certain things from sons and brothers that I would not expect from sisters or daughters.

Man up - do the hard right thing, own your shit, and make your life about you and those you are responsible to. Find comfort in the discomfort and stop wishing it were easier.

EDIT

Stone provided me with an awesome post HERE from the Red Pill Room.

Do not confuse 'Man Up' used here with the shaming language that others will use to get you to do something.

Man Up, in this context means grit your teeth, accept your failure, and use it to fuel your future growth and performance. As it's worded in the linked post, "When men tell other men to “Man Up” (usually) they are trying to improve the condition of the other man."

Others may try to shame you saying Real men don't care about N count - FUCK THAT and FUCK THEM a real man does as he pleases as he follows his mission in life and lives within his own Frame.