Just thought I'd share a quick summary of how sex is in my home now compared to how it used to be.
I used to ask for sex. I'd practically beg for it, I made deals for it, then I took it, no matter how poor the quality of it was. Fuck that shit. I began reading and posted some on here. I got mad when people said own your shit and lift and I thought I already was. But I was wrong, humbled myself, listened and read lots on here and books that we recommend here. This past Saturday I had nice anal sex w my sexy wife, she spread those butt cheeks apart for me. Then she grabbed my dick straight out of her ass and just jerked me a little more. Saturday night we had great sex again. We did any position I told her I wanted her in. She sucked me forever. Wanting that cum. It was great lookin down and into her eyes as she sucked me off. She was dressed perfectly just as I like it as well. Sex has turned into the main event in our marriage. I get what I want, she's my girl.
I've grown a lot since I first found you guys. Thank you for being hard asses and pissing me off and helping me see it was only going to get better if I began to lift in the weight room, the bedroom, my work place, and everywhere else. Sex is great now. My relationship is great. I still have room for improvement and I am bettering myself still. For you out there who feel helpless, like it's too hard, it will take too long, you don't know if it's worth it, etc. Get off your ass, work hard. Fail. Get up again, fail. Get up again. Repeat as long as you need to. You will get there. You will feel like a fucking man again, or maybe for the first time, and your wife will want to please her man again. Best of luck to you all; and thank you tremendously for all you active posters share. I truly learned as best I could from you.