My parents completely treat me like a snowflake. We are broke but my parents never made me work for anything. From my childhood, i got everything i wanted without having to ask twice. I never had to worry during my childhood days but this is becoming a problem for me now.

I cannot confront anyone. I am very very soft. I feel bad about very small things. I am the definition of a nice guy. When someone roast me in my group i don't have anything to say. And even if i say something they say something even better. I am underconfident, insecure, indisciplined, lazy. From age 10, i failed on every of my exam(except board exams), still my parents never told me anything. And this is ruining my life.

How do i change myself? I have tried with changing everything at once but i usually quit after day 2 or 3. I want to become a man. I want to become someone like Jocko Willink, Jason Statham, Vladmir Putin. Can you guys guide me, please?