LTR makes comments about me being unmanly?

redwall92 · 2018-10-01T16:27:36+00:00

You couldn't protect me if there was a break in.

"Couldn't...? Or wouldn't?"

My father has manlier hobbies than you

"Fair enough, but I'm banging his daughter so I win."

You're not manly enough to ride a motorcycle

"Why would I ride something fast and dangerous when I can get one to ride me instead?" ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

It doesn't really matter what you say, so long as you don't take it seriously.

creating_my_life · 2018-10-01T16:11:21+00:00

The problem isn't that she makes comments. The problem is that you give a shit that she makes comments.

matrixtospartanatLV · 2018-10-01T18:41:25+00:00

If your wife served you divorce and was GONE in 7 days,

What kind of shit would you do that made YOU happy, manly, and self-assured?

That’s your answer.

Stop fucking around and

GET TO FUCKING WORK.

If she doesn’t like the man you become, find someone who does.

You’re failing because SHE IS your frame.

Stop being a pussy and start being a dick.

2ndal · 2018-10-01T16:26:35+00:00

These are called shit tests. Surely you have heard about them in the 4-5 months you've been reading. You need to start passing them.

MrChad_Thundercock · 2018-10-01T17:00:23+00:00

“wondering if you guys could shed some light on how I can improve”

AA those comments.

Basic shit testing. Counter with cocky asshole Game. She needs some tingles^tm . Need to be cocky along with the lifting.

Pick her up and show her how strong you ARE.. squat her. You sound too boring and nice ^tm .

Ignoring = failing her shit tests. She’s literally poking the bear (you, really a faggot teddy bear) and not getting a reaction. She gets no feelz from you.

redwall92 · 2018-10-01T17:02:33+00:00

Everybody is saying the same thing here man.

Either define 'manly' yourself. Or let your wife define it for you.

Frame much?

UEMcGill · 2018-10-01T19:47:24+00:00

"Babe, do you shave or wax your mustache? I mean since you know so much about manliness."

It's a shit test.

tmh88mrp · 2018-10-01T17:45:49+00:00

I've been reading What Women Want When They Test Men: How to Decode Female Behavior, Pass a Woman’s Tests, and Attract Women Through Authenticity

It's not part of the official sidebar, but it's a good read and very RP, sometimes using the same terminology.

I recommend this book, it has some good insights and examples of the various different tests women do and what you're experiencing is in that book. It might help you recognise what she's doing and help you be convinced it has nothing to do with you and how you should build your frame based on integrity and embrace your masculinity - all of which should converge to make you impervious to shit testing and get your woman to stay in love with you.

Basically, don't believe what she says. It's hard, but if you recognise it for what it is, keeping your frame will come naturally. Keep reading and improving yourself and learn from those who've walked down the same path we tread now. I think that's about all you can do really. Also, ignore all the shit posts by uber angry dudes around here. When it comes to the comments in here, the truth is in between and I would pay more attention to badged folks. Also, the more you understand, you're better able to separate the unhelpful posts from confused individuals and helpful posts from those who really know what they are talking about. Good luck.

Sepean · 2018-10-01T18:29:11+00:00

When girls shit test, they probe for weaknesses until they find a weak spot, and then they keep on hitting that flaw in your frame.

She found the weak spot in your frame. Learn to handle it, and she’ll move on (and probe for another weak spot of course).

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-10-01T16:58:37+00:00

She's undermining you. Basically saying that you're still interviewing for the position that you've been doing for the past 4 years.

There will always be someone who is strong than you. There will always be someone "more manly" than you, as poorly defined as that is.

Are you married?

Rian_Stone · 2018-10-01T16:21:26+00:00

Could you protect her in the event of a break-in? Does her father have more masculine hobbies than you? The last is just a fact, she can't imagine you're the manly type to ride a motorcycle.

Sounds to me like she's shit-testing you and you either fail or she's just flat out right. Become the type of guy that could protect her in a break-in and get more masculine hobbies if you want to, otherwise just DGAF.

screechhater · 2018-10-01T22:57:12+00:00

Quit doing yard work with gloves.

Get the fuck out of the house.

What are ya it heavy liftd at ?

In her frame ? No, not all

Brickles09 · 2018-10-01T23:14:57+00:00

That the kind of shit test women do to manlets, just sayin

Westernhagen · 2018-10-01T18:05:38+00:00

Nobody has said "lift and STFU" yet. I am disappointed!

griz3lda · 2018-10-02T02:22:05+00:00

She prob just knows you're insecure about it. In any case that shit is just rude. Either AM or just make her feel like an idiot (if it wasn't meant as a joke) by looking her up and down with faux-concealed disgust like she has no taste or manners whatsoever, then proceed to acting like you don't care.

I think agree and amplify is the best choice tho.

djxput · 2018-10-01T18:00:48+00:00

My wife does the same thing but it's for different stuff, in the past I usually tried to defend myself DEER, don't remember what it means, but with my wife it never helped even if she is totally wrong. Recently I've been working on just stfu and keeping my frame.

lololasaurus · 2018-10-02T14:04:28+00:00

You say you're lifting but you neglected to post stats.

I suspect that's because your stats would make the problem fairly obvious.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-10-01T17:24:00+00:00

Does she suck cock like a woman or a man?

juliusstreicher · 2018-10-09T11:07:12+00:00

"LOL, if Cat Dennings were my woman, I'd be telling people to burglarize us, and you'd be hearing about how I protected her on Current Edition for the next month! Even Donald Trump would Tweet about it."

If she doesn't get the insult, she'll at least be confused.

friendandadvisor · 2018-10-19T02:03:23+00:00

"My father has more masculine hobbies..." "Well, his wife has bigger tits".

Title	LTR makes comments about me being unmanly?
Author	saltysnakes
Upvotes	13
Comments	40
Date	October 1, 2018 4:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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