I tought i swallowed the pill...

[deleted] · 2017-06-15T23:58:34+00:00

She needs a little comfort, bro. Give her a hug and tell her you love her, and do something nice for her. Then go back to being a hardass that won't type out cusswords

drty_pr · 2017-06-16T01:03:18+00:00

and we had a long fight about it

Why? Why do you humor her shitty behavior by indulging in the activity she is trying for? Why waste anymore time than absolutely necessary (which is very little BTW) talking about nonsense? Stop being a pussy.

Her - "I can't fuckin believe you fell asleep tucking our daughter in! You are a monster Aquitas! I wanted to cuddle and watch Greys Anatomy"
You - "I was tired. I no longer am tired"
Her - "So you're going to watch Greys Anatomy with me??"
You - "No, that show is shit. I'm going to open this bottlen of wine and drink it on the back deck. You're should join me"

Conversation over and you walk outside.

justpickanyusername · 2017-06-15T23:32:46+00:00

This has also been a big revelation to me. I am admittedly still processing this particular aspect of TRP. As "equals" in my prior BP fantasy world, I would expect her to behave and act very similarly to me. Responsible and rational etc. Then, I kept reading on MRP about thinking of her as the "most responsible teenager in the house". At first I thought, "Damn! What a dickheaded way to think about your wife!"

I started reading various anecdotes from others on here about the subject. Then, I started reading similar signals from my wife and the theory plays out as true. When she's grumpy, depressed, or pissed off. You should typically treat her like a pouty little girl. Pick her up and spin her around, piss her off, tickle her, tease her.

She claims that i dont give a fck and that she loves me more than i love her.

Your response: "Do you want me to call the wambulance?" (with your must ridiculous sad face and frown).

We are co-partners with our wives. Hence the captain and firstmate analogy. We are not equals. My wife can't deadlift worth shit, but if she could lift what I could I probably wouldn't be attracted to that man of a woman. We bring stability, rational thinking, and masculinity to the relationship. She brings her feminine qualities and brings things to the table we cannot. Together it works.

Treating her tantrums like you would a little girl is an easier way to see the absurdity of it all and practice amused mastery much better. It is a good approach in my opinion even though I found it off putting during the initial swallow as well.

SteelToeShitKicker · 2017-06-16T00:36:55+00:00

I tought I taw a putty tat.

[deleted] · 2017-06-16T00:15:44+00:00

Progress

InvincibleKraken · 2017-06-15T23:57:03+00:00

You're calling her crazy and a like a little girl but then you're censoring words in your post like we can't handle it. Maybe you're too concerned about what other people think. Maybe you need to learn STFU, DNGAF, and OI?

BluepillProfessor · 2017-06-16T15:25:53+00:00

she loves me more than i love her. And refuses to sleep in the same bed with me.

Well that makes sense. More proof that women aren't very good at logic.

then i said out loud.. she is just like a little girl.

Welcome...to the real world.

Garblix · 2017-06-16T15:39:58+00:00

"I treated her and talked to her like man"

I made that mistake a lot. It took me many, many months to fully break that completely and even now, every once in awhile I will catch myself talking to her like I would a male friend when I am trying to explain something. Luckily, through repetition, I recognize it either before I start or just as I am starting to do it and I kill it quick.

lizerpetty · 2017-06-24T22:00:31+00:00

I'm late here, and a chick, but I have some advice. When you get this behavior again. Hold frame and remain calm as a cucumber. Wait for her to finish and ask her tough questions. For example: "Do you feel this is important to have a fight over?" "Do you think I was trying to make you angry?" Also my husband and I have an agreement made before we got married. No disrespectful behavior, no cussing at each other. (In fact our vows were "to honor and respect each other") If/when she cusses at you. Tell her "I don't like this disrespectful behavior" or ask her "Do you think your behavior is appropriate?" Ask yourself "would she behave this way at work/in public/ around friends?" If the answer is no, then call her on her bullshit by helping her see the error in her ways.

Men can be just as crazy as women. There is no race, gender, or nationality that has all the crazy. It's peppered among us all. (Except white people do tend to be more of the serial killer type I will say that). Rational women do exist just not on this sub much.

drty_pr · 2017-06-16T00:00:32+00:00

You should try to introduce her to /r/RedPillWomen or at least maybe buy her some of the books geared towards red pill for women, like the things that Laura Doyle has put out. It sounds to me like she doesn't know how to manage her feelings. Just like the guys that are clueless before taking their first steps, the women are too.

Title	I tought i swallowed the pill...
Author	AquitasVeritas
Upvotes	10
Comments	30
Date	June 15, 2017 10:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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