I'd like to do this right. Interested in how everyone here would handle this. I'd like to drive home the point that by me ending this, she'll be losing the one element of power she is still hanging onto. Background: lifting 6 days per week (5:30am), taking care of shit around the house and NGAF if anyone recognizes it (very different than my old ways), reading constantly instead of phone surfing, out of the house way more often and on a schedule (self employed and used to sit at home working in PJs / being a beta slave), dressing much better and making sure I look and smell great at all times, in general more stoic -- but trying to avoid Rambo. My wife sees the changes. She has upped her game BIG TIME in the kitchen which has been awesome (hot breakfast every morning when I return from the gym and excellent healthy dinners) and has been much more pleasant and feminine (I've teased / complimented on how I like her to dress and do her hair and she's been dressing / doing her hair how I want). She rarely asks me to do anything and if she does she's very polite about it (recognizing that I outwork her by a long shot right now) and often apologizes for asking. She'll shit test from time to time and occasionally spout that what I'm doing isn't working, but then she'll quickly apologize (since I'm not rushing to fix things after her blowups like I used to) and say how much she appreciates / how impressed she is by what I'm doing or she'll just let it be. I've initiated regularly and she's pushed back every time other than the scheduled day. And now we're full circle in this post on ending the scheduled sex.