Progress Report.

I read in the sidebar PRs and ArkMRP is a place to put regular or weekly updates. So here goes. My first post is here

I came to a decision this week. As my frame is being built it occurs to me that it's not enough just to have it. The goal is to get her in it...therefore I need to stretch it outwards from me. The way I envision this is as a wall that is slowly moving outward taking more and more territory. hardly a great analogy but it works for me.

This then means I have to push my own boundaries out of my comfort zone. Each Week I am going to make one decision to push my envelope. Something that moves the improvement meter physically further.

So I decided to grow beard. A big deal? To me it is. I've never done it. The scruffy process, and having a whole new look is going to be uncomfortable. Will I keep it? No idea, I enjoy shaving, having a clean smooth face, but I can grow a beard fairly quick but I've never used that super power. So I spent the day looking at styles for bald men...I shave my head...and settled on a style that I am going to go for.

Face armor is all the rage these days so I might as well while the water is warm. Earlier in the morning I off hand mentioned to the wife what I was going to do. Just got a over the eyeglass stare. It's the naughty librarian stare.

I haven't shaved in a couple days already so it's fairly grown in. The bristly stage I guess I'd call it. Later that night, I went to kiss the wife as she headed out to work (she does second shift). As we leaned close to kiss and she runs her hand across my face,

"You know beards don't turn me on, right". I'm still close haven't kissed her.

"Darling, what turns you on is the least of my concerns,".

I 'dropped the mic' and walked upstairs.

Couple hours later I am researching beard oil.