Just found the red pill

Leviticus59 · 2016-01-12T21:16:44+00:00

Just know, at first you will be angry, it happens to a lot of men who join. It's natural, but use that to fuel your workouts. Life is about you, a woman (Plate, LTR, Wife) is just an aspect of your life.

The old phrase, happy wife happy life is completely wrong. Women are much more happy when their man has balls and leads the ship. Good luck on your journey and welcome

ParadoxThatDrivesUs · 2016-01-12T21:22:30+00:00

I'm just a few weeks ahead of you. You've just realized that you've been getting your ass kicked in a battle you didn't even know was being fought. Even worse, it's dawning on you that everyone else could see all along what you see now in yourself - like suddenly discovering that you've smelled like shit your whole life but no one told you. It's gonna be a whole new world of self-contempt for a while. My suggestion - start living at the gym.

IASGame · 2016-01-12T21:13:15+00:00

My favorite Red Pill content is Rational Male. Have a look at the best of. I think it really helps getting out of the anger phase.

[deleted] · 2016-01-12T21:32:32+00:00

sit back, relax, read through the side bar, and get your butt to the gym.

We have ALL been there and are still dealing with the fall out.

Good morning sunshine. Go to the marriedredpill and theredpill reddit and read those sidebars.

good luck

Trekneck · 2016-01-13T01:22:40+00:00

Good. You're here. Here's a cookie, now GTF to the gym. Sidebar it up, you'll be glad you found this place man.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-01-13T02:46:43+00:00

Welcome to the real world.

midlifedick · 2016-01-13T01:31:54+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3crj03/are_you_new_lets_have_a_conversation/

Quarter_Century_Club · 2016-01-13T02:36:48+00:00

Lift, read and STFU for the first few months while you digest the material and slowly begin to unplug. The sidebar is your Bible and you should take notes while you plow through it all.

There's going to be A LOT of anger and rage and a temptation at times to go full retard and completely nuke your relationship. That may end up happening but don't be the jackass that does it immediately before even grasping the full scope of your situation. Take your time and use Ask MRP for all your noobs questions. Good luck.

Griever114 · 2016-01-13T13:02:18+00:00

Few tips:

Read the sidebar. When you are done, read it again.
Lift, lift, lift, lift some more. When you are working through the angry phase, STFU and lift. You are not prepared for the hamster. Get your shit together.
Finished reading? Good, read it AGAIN till you can actualize it.

Rinse and repeat endlessly.

Redpilllife79 · 2016-01-12T23:53:01+00:00

Try to take it slow in your transition. I went to hard to fast and almost messed it all up. Don't make any decisions until you have really thought it out. Find a safe person to talk to about it all. Like everyone else says get to the gym and lift heavy. Pay attention to your wife. Study her. Learn what shit tests are. Watch how she reacts to your responses when you answer the shit test. Try to not take your anger out on her it really isn't her fault. A common rule around here is for progress you can figure a month for every year you have been in beta land. Its not an easy path but we are all on it. Good luck.

ThrowTheEgg · 2016-01-12T21:30:18+00:00

What are you going to do next?

The_Litz · 2016-01-13T13:45:52+00:00

Welcome to your new reality.

My first time I read NMMNG I was also totally floored. I know the feeling.

Take it slowely and lift.

sunfistkid · 2016-01-14T20:30:40+00:00

The vale has fallen, buddy boy. Keep choppin wood.

[deleted] · 2016-01-15T19:13:48+00:00

Just remember as you start this is your battle to change. And you're doing it for you. Don't go running and telling your friends. Do go tell your parents. Definately don't go and tell your wife. The path to walk is for you and you alone.

[deleted] · 2016-01-16T14:51:03+00:00

I've had two major paradigm shifts in my 43 years on this planet.

One was when I lost my religion and became an athiest. The other was finding the red pill.

I forget the exact quote, but something like, "you've always known that something wasn't quite right. And now your eyes have been opened."

Indeed they are!

Title	Just found the red pill
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