Welcome to /r/AskMRP

Our parent sub is /r/marriedredpill, a no holds barred brass knuckle forum devoted to sexual strategy for men in marriage. Our parent forum is conceived as a locker room and an informal Captains Council where Red Pill men can discuss advanced topics and strategies to improve their marriage and life. The posting guidelines are enforced and require participants to read 3 books before posting.

Course Prerequisites

  • No More Mr Nice Guy, Robert Glover
  • Married Man Sex Life Primer, Althol Kay
  • When I Say No, I Feel Guilty, M. Smith

/r/AskMRP was created for the following reasons:

  1. To provide a supportive and less confrontational forum than the no holds barred locker room atmosphere on /r/marriedredpill. To be crystal clear, we believe that /r/AskMRP is a bridge, a TEMPORARY waypoint, a SHORT TERM stop on your journey. We aim to go out of business and send you over to the Captains Council as soon as possible. However, some of us also believe that there exists a subset of guys who might be intimidated or otherwise off put by this atmosphere and further that some of those guys might actually be saved. Yes, call us fucking Morpheus. Some others think it won’t work and that you guys can’t be saved. Let’s prove them wrong.

  2. To provide a forum for several types of posts that have been banned on the parent sub. /r/Marriedredpill is concerned with providing high quality advanced Red Pill advice and examples and with forcing men to own their shit and improve their lives for the better. As a result, several types of posts have been banned which we can now permit on /r/AskMRP.

POSTS ALLOWED ON /r/AskMRP

a. Newb Questions are allowed on /r/askMRP. If you don’t understand something in the pre-requisite books, not sure if you even want to take the Red Pill, or if you can’t figure out the difference between a Shit Test and a Comfort Test (and you still haven’t figured out how to use the search function) hit us up and we will try to set you on the right path.

b. CAPTAINS LOG: WEEKLY journals or even more regular updates in your journey are allowed on /r/AskMRP by popular demand! You can start a new thread each week; we only ask that you link the previous entry in your Log and give us an idea how many entries you have made so far. You can update your journey for that week within the comment section. Don't start more than 1 Log thread per week. Helpful comments are encouraged. Just don't be a meany.

c. Rants/Vents (ie. victim pukes) about what a miserable situation you are in and how it's not your fault (it really is but we can work on that later) are allowed on /r/AskMRP! Let us feel your pain (we promise not to tell you what we really think).

d. Emergency Posts (aka 911 Emergency Posts from new guys) about your imploding marriage: "Help, my marriage is falling part and I have ruined it over many years but I need you to fix it for me before tomorrow morning." The usual advice is "google Marriage 180" but this is merely a band aid. You need to change yourself, lift, get in shape, read the sidebar books, and start paying attention to reality, or you are choosing to ruin your marriage with your own layzness. But.....If you just can't wait to finish the prerequisites or are not ready to get the total crap beaten out of you by the Captain's Council on Married Red Pill then try your post on AskMRP.

  • We are organizing a "Morpheus Squad" of experienced Red Pill men and women who can help you. Only experienced Red Pill guys (and girls!) with actionable Red Pill advice should comment on these threads and this will be strictly moderated. The Default setting is we want to work together to save the marriage so please avoid the 'divorce that bitch' style of advice- unless it is really warranted and the Default setting is not appropriate (abuse, false charges, danger to self or others, or the wife is a Lucifer's Daughter.)

POSTS NOT ALLOWED ON /r/AskMRP

Ever heard of Starfish Sex? If not, and you have read this far then open your eyes and ears and see if you recognize this: Starfish sex is when you make gentle love to your wife and she lays on her back with arms and legs thrown to the side just kind of laying there (like a Starfish, get it?) all the while hating you with her vagina. In short, a low effort fuck is what we men truly despise.

Know what else we despise? LOW EFFORT POSTS!

/r/AskMRP does not permit Starfish Posts

Beyond that…….

Are you feeling bloodied and need a few bro pats before the tough love kicks in?

Do you need a little bit of extra help that you're not seeing in the course materials on the sidebar?

Are you new to /r/marriedredpill and need some emergency advice while you are still trying to figure out all the jargon?

Are you intimidated by the locker room atmosphere on /r/marriedredpill and want to try out some of your questions and ideas in a more supportive forum before you graduate to the big leagues?

Do you have questions about the /r/marriedredpill course readings such as "No More Mr. Nice Guy" or "Married Men's Sex Life Primer" or "When I Say No I feel guilty?"

Knowing that the /r/marriedredpill posting guidelines frown on posting until you have AT LEAST read those books, what if you are in an early process of reading them but you have a question that just can’t wait?

Are you in an emergency situation with your marriage and your question absolutely cannot wait until you finish the books and sidebar items?

Are you in the process of taking the Red Pill and want to record your journey?

Are you just not sure if you should just take the blue pill?

Do you really just want to relax and enjoy your steak?

Our parent sub /r/marriedredpill takes a pretty harsh tack. We see it as a locker room where bloody, sweaty guys go to commiserate and act as a council of Captains. We get that guys sometimes post on MRP and get totally crucified. We get that it is intimidating.

So…..welcome to /r/AskMRP . We will be here for you in the beginning of your journey and let /r/marriedredpill continue to provide a place for quality advice and to act as a Council of Captains, and more to the point, to take some of the dilution that occurs with new subscribers. While iron sharpens iron some of you need your ore warmed up first before the hammering begins in the marriedredpill main subreddit- and trust us, they WILL hammer you. It can get brutal over there. Here, we will try to treat you with some respect (even when you don't deserve it) and with a bit more kindness (which is often counterproductive but we can't help you at all if you get pissed off and leave in a huff).

Just remember, all we are offering you is the truth- but unfortunately nobody can be shown what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself. Our goal on /r/askMRP is to make your journey out of the Matrix easier than Neo's awakening. Just understand, it is NEVER easy.

So we get it and we created r/AskMRP as a kinder, gentler place in hopes that some new guys who are not ready for the full truth yet and might otherwise pass by the main Married Red Pill Reddit can be lead to the water. We can’t make you drink, you can't force feed somebody the Red Pill, but we can lead you to the water.

The world doesn't need more rage quitting guys who reject a workable praxeology over a harsh tone or hurt feelings. We know you are at your wits end and that maybe tough love just pisses you off. We know that some of you want to do the nice-guy retreat back into being a doormat for your wife and a poor example for your children. We are here to catch you guys who are not ready for the full unvarnished truth, but you are at least ready to begin the journey.

Welcome to /r/AskMRP

Posting Guidelines: A Snapshot

No Starfish Posts

No low quality posts

No harshly criticizing a user

Keep it friendly, professional, and civil

Don't give REDPILL advice if you're just starting and not a regular poster on the RP subs. Commiserate all you want, but until you've lived this for a while and have your own successful redpill marriage you need to lurk/learn/ask before advising.

Bluepill or concern trolling will get you banned.

Debating or asking us to justify the red pill is suited for /r/purplepilldebate and will get your content deleted.

AskMRP is about easing in so keep comments helpful or encouraging. Save (and expect to receive) the tougher love for the /r/marriedredpill main.

Finally.....our posting guidelines already preclude pouncing and brutality against the downtrodden or acting like the squirrel at 20 seconds....so......yes, Red Pill women ARE permitted to participate and even give advice on /r/AskMRP! We are here to help the newly unplugging, man, woman, girls, and boys. Our goal is to get the men on /r/marriedredpill and /r/theredpill and the women over to /r/redpillwomen and change the world- one lost soul at a time.

So if you are a woman getting ready to leave your pathetic, whining, little Beta Bitch husband because you just don't think there is anywhere he can go to help him man up for a last ditch effort to save your marriage, why not give him this link? Lots of guys need a wakeup call except on /r/askMRP we think some of those guys might have an answer for it.