I'm reading the book "for women only". I'm not sure how RPW feel about it, but so far I've found it helpful.
I just finished the chapter about how extremely visual men are and it's making me reconsider how I dress. I'm a stay at home mom in decent shape (5'6" and 135 lbs). I'd like to lose 10 pounds or so but I don't feel bad about how I look. My typical every day outfit is yoga pants and a t-shirt, maybe minimal makeup. I want to dress up for my husband more, but it often feels pointless when the only places I go are the grocery store and the park. And it's also important that I'll able to get down on the floor and play so dresses only work if the skirt is pretty full.
I also don't want to look too sexy. I want him to notice me as I move around the house but I don't want to draw the attention of strangers when I'm out.
How do men feel about what their wives wear? Should I just aim to look better all the time? I'm trying to find the balance of feminine and practical. But now I'm thinking about the women he works with who wear heels and pencil skirts and makeup every day (like I used to) and I want to be comparable to that. I don't know.
Please advise!
Thanks
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