I'm big. I know I desperately need to lose weight for my health and marriage. I also have the responsibility of feeding our family in a good way. I've always been big, and have tried so many times to lose weight, lost focus and regained.

Are there any other really big ladies here who are choosing to lose? I'd love to follow your journeys and get some support.

Please be kind, I know I've fcked up and need to own my sht on this. I know I'll be a better wife when I am healthier, more active, and more fun in bed.