Personal stories and words of advice and wisdom welcome, please.
I'm 29 and my fiance (BF of 6 years) is 32. I've always been super career driven (I'm a Marriage and Family Therapist) and recently landed my dream job.
Fiance told me my "dream job" is too emotionally draining and ruins our relationship because I don't have as much time for him and I let the home slip into "clutter" which leads to arguing, etc. Long story short, he told me to quit my job and be a SAHW by the end of the month or he is calling off the wedding.
The truth is, being a SAHW sounds appealing, but giving up a career I've worked so hard for (and am damn good at) is terrifying. Quitting my job is also terrifying because my boss is a hardcore feminist and will flip out on me.
Moral support, please.
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