It's a new term, to me at least, and it's something women use when they say that men don't do stuff like make plans, take care of birthdays, anniversaries, dinners, visits, travel.

This has not been my experience at all and I wonder if any of you have this? If you do do all the planning like this, do you enjoy or resent it?

My bf takes initiative on setting up our plans with his family and friends and birthday gifts etc., while I take initiative with mine, bc duh. We do include each other of course. He's a grown up and had to remember those things before I came along.

Interested in hearing your view.