"28 Days Of Romance" Challenge Week 1: Fun!

[deleted] · 2017-02-01T19:44:05+00:00

I will likely have an hour (maaaybe two) after I get home but before SO gets home and there are some heavier duty chores we both dread and therefore do together but put off this pst weekend. I'm going to try and get them done and "surprise" SO with burgers from our favorite place (burgers are better than chores).

Im debating whether or not to have them delivered at home and greet SO wearing nothing but my apron or going out for the ambiance. There is one chore that we HAVE to do together so, perhaps the latter.

Otherwise we have a date adventure planned for this weekend.

SO is going out tomorrow with a friend to watch a horror movie (since I hate horror and can't watch them with SO plus friend scored free tickets). I might tackle a small home improvement project as a surprise like hanging the art we've been acquiring frames for.

Update: SO got home early while I was at the laundromat still and wasn't feeling well, but I had almost everything else done so SO ordered in some soup and snuggled me while we watched a movie instead of going out. Unplanned and wonderful.

[deleted] · 2017-02-01T19:49:07+00:00

This week I plan to do 3 things:

1 - My husband has to attend a weekend work conference out of town. The conference hotel was subpar compared to our usual accommodations, so I arranged for us to stay in an absolutely beautiful hotel just a short drive from the conference. I've also made us reservations at restaurant downtown that has received rave reviews.

2 - I'm in charge of all shopping and meal planning. Because we both work so much I typically plan and prepare all of our meals on Sundays. But, since we are going to be gone this Sunday, I am going to take a different approach. Instead I am doing to prepare a new dish for each meal. I will integrate individual ingredients into multiple meals to limit food waste and unnecessary purchases.

3 - I've decided to take the 30 Days of Sex challenge, with a twist. We currently have sex almost daily, but I don't think we've ever gone 30 days straight (darn you 12+ hour work days for both of us!) Instead I will initiate sex every day for 30 days. Right now initiation is 50/50. So, I will initiate even if he already has for the day, which will probably mean double dipping most days! We will see what our streak is, but this allows some flexibility if he isn't up to it. And, I'm not going to beat myself up if we don't make it. The noro virus is going around after all.

[deleted] · 2017-02-02T02:06:13+00:00

My SO is away on business for a while and I know he is going to have a very big next several days. I had to ship something to him today, so I threw in a couple extra snacks and a book to read while he is relaxing this weekend. I also found a cute little card for Valentine's Day that I'm sending him early.

I really enjoy Valentine's season, and know that we can't spend that day together, so I'm trying to make it special and fun. I'm thinking of sending him little things in the mail, like post cards and love notes as much as possible up until the 14th.

I've also been trying to really embrace my Goddess of Light and Fun by not complaining or being mopey when talking or texting with him and trying to put a positive spin on not so fun situations like him having to study his training materials. We've already planned a study date for when I come to visit next weekend!

A big thing that I've learned from day one is by simply making an effort to be fun and cheery a snowball forms. It just gets easier and more fun. I was not expecting to see such a positive impact on my mood!

[deleted] · 2017-02-07T12:51:48+00:00

Ah this thread is perfect for us! We deemed 2017 as "The Year of Travel" and we just took a trip to a snowy area. We experienced a lot of fun new things together, and made some great memories. I extensively researched a nice hotel to stay in, several restaurants so we could choose based on what we were hungry for, as well as a couple "must see" places. It was lovely, and hubby was so impressed and thankful for my work. Time well spent!

Edit: spelling

littleeggwyf · 2017-02-03T09:59:01+00:00

This week hubs has been away and I've been making the house as nice as possible for him to get back to. I really think when he gets home tonight he's probably going to be pretty tired and maybe want to chill out and just relax. To help, I've asked my mom to look after our daughter and will be looking my prettiest (hopefully).

(Honestly I kinda want to jump him, my libido has been going nuts and he was getting changed for evening socialising when he called last night so I kept getting mini stripteases! But I'll see how he seems)

Tomorrow though, I have surprise reservation for brunch at a very nice hotel, and will let him sleep in before that (cos noone has to be on kid duty).

"28 Days Of Romance" Challenge Week 1: Fun!

Happy February!

Wednesday Feb 1, 2017: Fun!

Title	"28 Days Of Romance" Challenge Week 1: Fun!
Author	RPWives
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Date	February 1, 2017 6:50 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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