We all get to the point where we realize we've dropped the ball on ourselves and/or marriage. Those times where a lot is happening in life and you have put everything else on hold only to go back to it (your body, your husband, your home, etc) and see that it has accumulated dust an inch thick.

How do you/have you done a bit of "spring cleaning" on yourself and relationship? What is in your "cleaning kit"? What has been your experience with this?