Have any of you ladies ever tried those "rules" books' advice? It's very rigid but one that stood out to me was the idea that early on, you should end dates and phone calls first, to leave him wanting more.

Is this something you do? I am trying to do it but I'm very bad at it because I'm good at getting along and talking, and bad at finding a place to stop, even if I want to go. Usually I end up giving lots of hints I want to leave and he ends up saying "I'll let you go."

I feel silly about not ending first. Do you think this is an important thing?