Gents,
I have been posting for the past year about the shit show of my life. Anyways I am about 2 months from finalizing my divorce because the kid is involved but I have been lifting, reading, and fucking like a new man. I have to say a lot of the doctrine here has given me a new focus and I am truly enjoying life again. I am being a better father to my daughter and focused on that relationship as I should have. Relationship with the STBX is straight logistics and no issues there even though she is trying to blame me for the divorce which I am amused by.
The new freedom of dating has been great. I have had plenty of dates and girls which I spun for a while and I would not waste my time like I would have been before. It's truly interesting seeing the dating world and women through the RP as a single man.
One issue that I am recognizing with myself is that my time is minimum as I am 50% time sharing and I find myself getting tired spinning 2-3 plates with the 3-4 nights that I have free to myself. I am following the rules on controlling time and presence with them. If they start complaining about not spending time with me, I let them go. It's a valid reason but at the same time I won't waste time on them.
I am having good results but I have to say it's sort of losing it's shine because getting slightly exhausted by it if those that know what I mean. I am cutting the number down to 1-2 in the stable but it seems like there is an urge to go LTR and not spin. The main plate is a solid plate but I am keeping her on her toes with varying dread and she is eating it up.
For those that have divorced and dated how did you stop this from creeping up? Shall I just put of dating for a while?
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