The arguments of the hivemind appear to boil down to "JuSt Be DeCeNt BrO"
Well, the people it will work on (ie, people inclined to decency) are basically irrelevant to solving the problem.
"Speak up, act out, call men out, save the day", all these expectations and exhortations are really not dependable or realistic.
The dumbest shit is expecting drunk ass 18 year olds, for example, to not only self regulate but play the role of older brothers and fathers and protectors in not just deeds but even words.
People are free to try to have it both ways all they want, but when it comes to personal safety, it is an unwise thing to rely on or expect.
The real (and only remotely reliable) protection comes from the law. You want power differential sex or drunk sex or manipulation or lewd comments to count as rape or assault or harassment? Go fight to make it a crime. Otherwise all you're doing is preaching to the converted.
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