Simple explanation, look at Asian parenting methods. Amy Chua wrote an article a few years back about the Asian Tiger mom. She then attributed the high academic success rate of Asian children to their Tiger Mom. The politically correct attacked Amy Chua, called her abusive. The article I cited from Time Magazine states that Amy Chua is most likely correct.

Most Asian men are not very masculine because of the culture. Underneath the facade of democracy is a feudal system, status and power is everything. At an early age most Asians are taught to conform and not question things. The Asian culture is far older then western culture, and has survived countless tests. Western culture is returning to the natural order of things.

The post about Alpha/Beta schools I made a while back is very applicable to Asia. Alpha school teaches its students they are part of the ruling class. Beta school teaches they are to serve the ruling class.

The western idea of equality in Asia does not exist. A person either is above you or beneath you, this is built into the culture. Right away you have to establish your position in any relationship. Most Americans have a tendency to mistake arrogance with authority, the exception being Americans from southern states. Southerners are usually soft spoken, but speak with authority, and they usually have good manners. As a result they seem to command respect. Yankees from places like NYC are loud, rude and obnoxious, usually they are just tolerated because they have money.

Watch how Asian parents behind closed doors treat their kids. What by western standards would be considered verbal and physical abuse is standard parenting practices.

Whether it is your wife or someone who works for you, strict boundaries have to be set right away. My house is organized like an Army platoon, I am the Captain, my wife is the Sgt and the rest of the people fit into squads. Every morning I have an unoffical orders group, everyone tells me what they are going to do. I then either approve or diapprove.

The rest of the day I do what ever, or make random inspections. If people are fucking up I correct them.

Watch how an Asian parent will treat thier child, this goes on for the entire child's life. The Asian parent will say stuff like, you stupid useless child, what an ungrateful child you are, how dare you insult your parent like that etc.

Ideally you want a wife who went to an Alpha school, that way she makes a good Sgt. A wife like that is like a pitbull, a good dog, but it will always try and shittest you. Asian women can have extremely bad tempers, if she gets pissed at you, extreme cases she will throw stuff at you, come at you with a knife etc. This is like a super shittest, treat her like a 10 year old child having a temper tantrum.

After the tantrum is done, be just like her father/mother. You dumb stupid useless wife, why did I marry a useless woman like you ?, I shouls get rid of you and get a proper wife. She then appologizes for being a bad wife, promises she will be a good wife. You then forgive her, you kiss and you make up.

Asia once you figure out how to make the system work for you is a good place. As buddy said here, you can never take them back to a western country, otherwise the entire system falls appart.

time.com/88125/the-tiger-mom-effect-is-real-says-large-study/