When I think back to my not having sex ways of the past, I realize that I, in fact, did have plenty of opportunity to get down. I was never a complete wreck in any of the main areas of sexual value, so girls did make it somewhat obvious from time to time that they'd be down for a hook up.
My problem was that I was far too picky and the girls that were available to me were not up to "my standards".
What a dumbass I was! Throwing away perfectly good vagina like a fuckin' tard. My stomach was growling at me but I wouldn't eat the plate of broccoli in front of me because it was "gross".
These days, I'll pork a 5 if I feel the need for release. It's not ideal, but sex is a human need much like food and water, and failing to meet your needs will fuck your head up royally. Just like failing to eat will weaken your body and make further attempts at finding food to sustain yourself harder and harder, failing to bone will do the same to your psychological well-being, which will affect your game as well.
Also consider that sex and seduction are skills, and improving your skills requires practice and experience. You won't have the luxury of practicing on dime or even nickel pieces when you're starting out, so you might as well get going with some pennies. For you RPG fans out there: You have to grind a bunch of slimes and rats and stack levels before you can take on a dragon.
Having game and living a caddish life doesn't mean you'll be rolling in top shelf poon for the rest of your days. Shit happens; you'll find yourself in a rough spot no matter how tight your game is. Sometimes your plates will crash all at once and all at the most inopportune of moments. Sometimes you'll burn out and recuse yourself from the game. Sometimes you'll try the LTR thing only to have it blow up, leaving you back in the market with no puss reserves. In these instances, a sub-par but willing girl can be just the thing to get your ball(s) rolling. I've noticed that a lot of guys who get laid on the regular will pull from the bottom shelves when pickings are slim. There's no shame in meeting your needs, plus, stories about fucking uggos always get a laugh from the bros.
What it boils down to is that a lot of frustrated dudes like to think that they're "better than that", as if the quality of the girls that they fuck have some kind of bearing on their worth as a man. It really doesn't as long as you're striving to improve and not making it a habit. It's not like you're going to marry the bridge troll you brought home last week. (Having said that, habitual bottom-feeding is a problem, but that's a post for another time)
Now go out there and treat women like garbage! (Just kidding. (But not really.))
Also check out my blog about dating japanese girls and follow me on twitter.
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