In that women expect most High-SMV men to be exciting and stimulating vs. boring (self-improvement). I'm able to constantly, consistently engage myself with the second. How do these two reconcile? Should "self-improvement" include dedication to more conventionally exciting hobbies?
I'm assuming tight game---> that covers an aspect of exciting/stimulating that I'm not talking about.
Edit:
Why is self-improvement boring for you?
I don't find it boring at all. I'm referring to others' perception of the above, and what's considered "exciting" (which is undeniably important to Game)
Edit 2:
girls want the final product bro, not the marathon
^ Several comments have said this.
The marathon is never ending---but whenever a girl checks you out, she sees a final product. The question is how to make that final appearance look as interesting as possible (even if it already is), when the self-improvement process itself looks disciplined and boring (in a way)?
Edit 3:
Frame's wrong, hot stuff. Don't be givin fucks about others' opinions, man.
^ Few have said this as well. I don't do stuff unless I choose to, want to. The fact remains, women are hot---and I want in, literally.
Girls often prefer fun hobbies in male. Some men, too, would probably recommend I branch out into more fun hobbies. I somewhat agree with that, but I don't know to what extent yet. Trying to figure that out.
tldr: FUUUUCCKKKKKK (For real tho. I've had this thought in mind for a while, and this discussion really helped me nail down what I want to do).
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