Guys, quick nugget :

This is a trap. She does not want your opinion. Stop taking her words at face value.

Lots of askMRP posts lately describe a situation where “she said this. I am confused / I said that. What to do?”

Start by understanding that the fact that she speaks or shares some idea is more important than the idea or question itself. Look to connect with the emotion behind the actual language. This is womanese. Men reliably screw this up and we put our feet in our mouths when we engage with ladies in conversation as if the words were on paper in some technical manual. They do not matter. Conversation initiated by her is to a large degree simply an opportunity for you to be attractive and reinforce your frame and higher value. End of story.

Watch what she does, ignore what she says.

She talks about sexy bathing suits? What she means is she wants your approval so spend some money and she wants to have her brains banged out by you while she looks like a total dirty slut. Perfectly fine. She’s yours for now, it’s your turn, enjoy it.

Want simple rules ? A rule of thumb I read a long time ago on this sub: anything that starts with “you” is usually a shit test. Treat as such. Anything that starts with “I” is most likely a comfort test.

Engage with how she feels about whatever she’s talking about. This is a great exercise with all women you meet. At the department store. At the cafe whatever - get out of the ordinary bla blah generic conversation on boring facts and ask/ talk more about how she engages with whatever she’s experiencing. Eg: “Did you panic/get excited/ smiled etc when you saw X”. Instead of “So when you saw X then what happened after that.? “

Next level up on that is to inset hyperbolas, jokes and metaphors. Eg.” You got excited like a little girl in a candy store .”

Watch what she does, ignore what she says. She’ll say anything she feels like in the moment.