"I cheated on my boyfriend with my rapist" Wow... you can't make this shit up.

redpillschool · 2019-02-09T16:01:42+00:00

I just love the intro.

I did my best to piece the fractured night together like shards of glass. The last thing I remembered was arriving at a beach-themed frat party with my roommate, who had primed me with several shots during our pre-game and convinced me to forgo a shirt for a bikini top*. Evidently, other friends noticed that I was dangerously drunk, and one deposited me in the common room of her dorm suite to sleep it off, along with her brother, who was visiting that weekend.

Remember, for girls, they get to impair themselves with all sorts of drugs and alcohol, and it's everybody else's responsibility from there on out. They have to make her decisions for her. They have to protect her. She didn't choose the bikini top. She didn't choose a room to sleep in. She couldn't. Because women are children. Far be it from her to decide not to get blackout drunk in a public setting - how dare you try to responsibility-shame her!

I told close girlfriends the bare minimum, letting them assume the encounter was consensual. I retained so few memories that it was surprisingly easy to let the whole incident recede from my mind. I started dating someone new. I graduated. I got a job.

I mean if she was passed out and this dude stuck his dick in her, that's rape. No doubt about it.

But if you're blackout drunk, that doesn't mean you're pass-out drunk. It just means you're not creating memories. Were you passed out? Or did you engage in sex and fail to record the memory? There is a distinct difference here.

In fact, I've partied drunk myself, and I've had girls approach, get on top of me, and do all the work. If they forget it because of alcohol, does that mean I raped them? What if I forgot as well? DID WE RAPE EACH OTHER?

I knew I should be ashamed and, frankly, worried that my boyfriend—who I’d been with for a year and would go on to date for another three—would find out. But I was neither.

I know that all the programming our culture does keeps telling me I've been damaged. But what if I'm not? Oh, I'm just in denial about it. Because culture is always right.

You know, drunken hookups happen all the time. Back in the old days nobody held on to it for fucking years because nobody was in their ears whispering "you're a victim now, act like it!"

Once again, if she was legitimately passed out, it was rape. But these details are always coupled with "I drank and don't remember." It's too easy of a copout.

And she has to debate in her head whether she's actually a victim.

If you get shot in the leg, do you have to debate your victimhood?

If somebody robs you at gunpoint, do you have to debate your victimhood?

Why is this one so hard to grasp? If a drunken hookup is so egregious that it should be considered one of the worst crimes against humanity ever, then why is anybody having a hard time grasping their own victimhood on this?

Nikkozezim · 2019-02-09T15:53:33+00:00

What the fuck is wrong with women, dude. What the FUCK.

MisplacedSanityP · 2019-02-09T16:00:34+00:00

Red flags are red flags for a reason boys. This bitch is sociopathic in her lack of empathy for her BF. "An obscure yet palpable sense of relief drove away any hint of guilt before it could take hold." Translation: "It made me feel better so why should I feel guilty about it?" Don't buy damaged goods.

hmsthinkingmeat · 2019-02-09T16:15:54+00:00

So this guy thought nothing of "raping" her on the first encounter, thought nothing of showing up where his "victim" was, and then in the second encounter didn't try anything on with her?

More like: She had drunken sex the first time, and felt so bad when she sobered up that she convinced herself it was all his fault so she didn't need to feel bad.

Then when she met him the 2nd time she realised she thought he was pretty hot so hooked up with him, then to not feel bad a bout cheating on het SO, she concocted the story she was doing it to regain "control" over her "rapist".

Crock of utter shite.

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-02-09T19:31:38+00:00

I started to escalate my small talk to flirtation. It was like shifting into an autopilot mode I didn’t know existed. Without a clear thought or strategy, I drank enough to soften my focus and banish my inhibitions, but not so much that I lost control. I knew where I was and how to get to safety. I could pinpoint my friends on the dance floor—the better to dodge them as I moved closer and closer to my assailant. Eventually I suggested we go back to his apartment.

And to think, we let these things vote.

RealMcGonzo · 2019-02-09T17:00:04+00:00

Aaaand we're back to anger

strikethrough123 · 2019-02-09T16:01:21+00:00

“My rapist”. Not “a rapist”, but “‘my rapist”. And here I was thinking they were trying to get rid of “rape culture”, but now it almost sounds like having your own personal rapist is the thing to do.

max_peenor · 2019-02-09T18:27:45+00:00

"How did I get here? Did I say yes to this?"

Yeah, that's what we all say when the tiger is on top of us and starts eating. It just magically happened. Invisible sky tigers patrol the airspace waiting to pounce in an instant. Never mind you actually jumped a fence at the zoo.

memer935115 · 2019-02-09T15:52:16+00:00

Truly shows the irrationality and the unpredictability of the female brain.

atticusfinch1973 · 2019-02-09T19:42:30+00:00

Scary thing is if she thought she was going to lose the boyfriend she likely would have claimed rape from years ago and that it was trauma that caused it.

I know a guy who just got nine months in jail because he banged a girl with a boyfriend and - when she got caught - she claimed he raped her.

jonpe87 · 2019-02-09T17:31:23+00:00

enjoy

the

fucking

decline

dr_warlock · 2019-02-09T20:31:34+00:00

I couldn't read past the first paragraph. The unnecessary woo is me metaphors that sound like a try-hard beginning writer: "putting together the memory like shards of broken glass" (barf). Every line is written in a way to transfer responsibility to a 3rd party. Textbook victimhood badge bullshit. The only good thing about it is the first picture. I can tell she has some nice hips and ass. Would bang.

universalabundance1 · 2019-02-09T22:37:46+00:00

Rape is a display of very high testosterone, sex drive and High value.

If youre not rayp-fucking her pussy to oblivion when you have sex, you will be cucked by someone who will. This should be the #1 roleplay/theme under every man's arsenal.

Few know this

2019-02-09T16:49:10+00:00

heres another one covering it. https://www.truthrevolt.org/news/marie-claire-woman-cheats-boyfriend-her-rapist-reclaim-identity

ntvirtue · 2019-02-10T01:12:18+00:00

How can we put a Hamster of that magnitude on an electrical generator?

bonslytoss · 2019-02-10T11:37:04+00:00

I think the biggest takeaway from this thinkpiece is that it clearly illustrates the thought process that the 25% of rape victims on college campuses undergo to come to the identity of "victim." She starts off thinking that she would rather be a "cheater" than a "victim." Fast forward long enough, and she is proud enough of her victim status to publish an article for attention.

rpsheepdog · 2019-02-09T15:31:05+00:00

For some reason I can't open the link.

A story circulated like this a while back on here, it read very odd, like the girl had the guy's phone number and rode around with him all night, boyfriend finds out she had been seeing the guy and suddenly he becomes the "rapist" yet she still was seeing him. Boyfriend even condoned it as some kind of coping mechanism.

2019-02-09T19:54:58+00:00

So:

- the girl got supposed complely drunk and lost control. When she was already hard drunk and had opportunity to stop, she didn't.

- the girl can't remember anything including if is she approved or not and so conclude she must not have. I can't understand how she can be so sure.

- nobody ever heard anybody shooting and there was no violance. Nobody was surprised neither she took the night with him. Nobody actually seen it as a rape.

- the supposed rappist didn't consider it a rape neither didn't have issue to see her again and she didn't have issue neither, even agreed on concensual sex.

- it is only like years after the fact she rationnalized this as rape.

- she consider fidelity to be of no importance and to shit twice her boyfriend as normal. Why ? To be raped and to then willingly perform sex with her rapist.

=> Sorry but this girl is the problem not the supposed rapist. Whatever anybody says, once adult you are supposedly in control of your behavior. If you can't, then please get a yellow star or something saying you are irresponsible and shall be avoided at all costs. Don't be authorized to drive a car, get a credit or sign any contract neither as obviously you can't keep on what you aggreed.

While raped people have all my empathy, I have none for her. She is a dangerous person to be avoided at all cost. No one shall ever trust her on anything.

Twobithatter · 2019-02-11T00:06:12+00:00

This is why one of my personal rules is NEVER mess around with a girl who’s been drinking or if I’ve been drinking. I remember at a party me and a girl were drinking and the whole night she’s grabbing my dick, while I push her hand away, gettin on top of me, trying to pull me to a closed room and etc. so finally I decided to leave and push her off of me. The next day everyone was asking why I would push her off me, why I got mad, and how she didn’t remember anything except that I got mad and pushed her. It was such an eye opener like really you don’t remember anything about the night except the part were I push you.

2019-02-09T19:53:26+00:00

And people want this to lead the free-world.

Fucking nuts.

sileegranny · 2019-02-10T03:11:48+00:00

You absolutely can make this shit up; in fact I'd bet good money she did.

2019-02-09T18:03:36+00:00

Her pride has been scattered when she defenseless was demonstrated to her violently.

Logically, the only way to recover that lost pride and rid of that sense of shame... is to do something shameful.

2019-02-09T19:39:05+00:00

People never do something just once. she got drunk and slept with a guy She was attracted to and did it again later. It's all the typical mental judo after that. Fancy psychologist tend to miss the obvious conclusion, she's partaking in patterns that she enjoys.

tempolaca · 2019-02-10T14:53:04+00:00

I was objectively a bastard with my Ex-gf. Planted her on weekends, ignored her, fucked other girls, etc. She dumped my ass obviously.

Last week she came back crying and I've been fucking her all week.

SalporinRP · 2019-02-10T18:51:31+00:00

The whole topic of being able to provide consent while under the influence of alcohol is such a massive clusterfuck for men. What idiots these days need to get through their head is that blackout/brownout drunk doesn't necessarily mean that the person is passed out.

I don't really drink much now, but there were nights in college where I would blackout but I would still be up and moving and dancing and even getting with girls. And I wouldn't remember shit the next day, or at most very vague images. There were also other nights where I had more to drink than those blackout nights, puked my guts out, and I could remember every detail. It's a crapshoot.

So if I game a girl, take her home to fuck, but then forget it the next day because I blackout suddenly I was raped?

Also when both parties are drunk suddenly women have no agency and it's all the man's fault. So if both parties were extremely drunk, meaning neither could consent does that mean they both raped each other?

And that's not to say rape doesn't happen. I know for a fact that some guys at frat parties are straight up predators and will even resort to spiking drinks. But making every instance of drunk sex count as rape just diminishes real victims of actual rape.

civilizedfrog · 2019-02-11T02:02:18+00:00

Articles like these push average guys over to the red side. My friends and I were having a discussion about this topic. Most of them were ok with being in relationship with a girl who was raped. Me and another guy, who is somewhat purple, was against it. I posted this article on our whatsapp group to show that this is how they think. Now atleast they will think about being cuckolded before getting into a relationship with a broken person.

AbjectGrapefruit · 2019-02-12T00:47:50+00:00

Far from the first trashy, used up girl self sabotaging and trying to make themselves a hero for it.

Omnidempotent · 2019-02-09T16:25:01+00:00

The assault filled her with anxiety, which is a response to insecurity and lack of safety. Being weaker than her assailant, her only option to relieve this anxiety and regain a sense of security was to appease him. That's why she found herself flirting with him. It was her anxiety pushing her to make sure that he viewed her favorably so that he would not assault her again. By gaining his favor, so to speak, she could feel safe and secure once more.

It is the same thing beta males do when faced with an aggressor. They know they would lose in a physical altercation so they become submissive and extra friendly to try to defuse the situation and make sure the other person likes them. Because if we're friends then he won't hit me, right? And so it goes with rape victims and their assailants.

Edit: if she was indeed raped

Chadster113 · 2019-02-09T23:16:22+00:00

Jesus this is brutal. Is this baseline female behavior or is this an outlier?

Razkolol · 2019-02-10T14:25:16+00:00

Let’s translate this from hamster to reality. She doesn’t remember what happened during that night, but she remembers getting fucked hard. She gets into a new relationship > bf sounds beta, prob fucks her gently not to damage his princess, > she remembers the rough fucking from that nigh > is exited to meet Chad again > meets him > invites him to fuck > cheats on beta bf; years later tells the story to her psychologist and bf, bf is in too deep now, interprets it as rape. She regrets having sex with Chad 10 years later. Rape =/= getting drunk and having sex. Derrick Rose breaking into some chick’s house with 5 of his homies, that’s rape.

GirlsHateMtgplayers · 2019-02-10T19:14:13+00:00

Hahaha jesus christ.

It worries me that shit like this has become expected for me. I don't get shocked or surprised at headlines like this, i just get amused and have ao "of course she did that" reaction.

It just makes sense in the nonsensical way that women do the exact opposite of what would be expected of them if they were thinking rationally.

RedPillWintergreen · 2019-02-11T03:01:55+00:00

The amount of rationalization this woman displays for her bad judgement is hilarious. Reminds me of Ghostbusters 2. "So your alien had a room at the Holiday Inn?"

javiercer20 · 2019-02-11T07:43:25+00:00

You guys are missing the key point here. Women rather be raped and be treated like trash than being stuck with a blue pill accommodating beta male. That old dirty used up aggressive man gives her way more tingles than good hearted Bob.

2019-02-11T07:49:19+00:00

I've tried three times to write a comment on this post, but I just can't. I legitimately cannot believe that the society we live in is real.

AllahHatesFags · 2019-02-12T14:01:06+00:00

This wasn't a rape, she got drunk, fucked Chad, and then decided to do it again later on when she got bored with her beta simp boyfriend. It's gotten so bad now that every time I hear "rape" I immediately get really skeptical because they have broadened the term so much that they have diluted its meaning.

2019-03-09T06:46:00+00:00

At the risk of sounding controversial - why can't she say she had a bloody good time - twice - and leave it at that.

Sorry. I'm being a man. I'll just shut the fuck up. My long term partner way back when was so turned on but so drunk in bed at the end of the day, she said if she fell asleep just keep going, because you know baby I really want to please you. Yeah well I woke up and sometime during the day she was all You didn't keep going did you! She slapped me playfully and said it wasn't cool. She asked if I'd ever do it again and I told her if you let me. I mean hell i was so turned on too we both felt the same all the way through, it wasn't fun for me either, it was just sex with a log basically. The thought I had was really not haha take it , it was I wish you were still awake you sexy ass woman. Maybe she was reliving something I don't know. She basically told me not to stop, don't you dare stop ok. Like she didn't want me going elsewhere or something.

We had a good sex life. She demanded I fuck her brains out after I ditched her for possible cheating. I did so and really made her pay. Felt good actually and she absolutely loved it. And then she tried to get pregnant as fast as she could to me. True story.

I have no doubt this girl signalled this guy to bang her at some point even if she unwittingly thought better of it. And that she liked it. It's a bit unacceptable but she went back for more. I also think if things panned out differently she would marry the guy if she could. The trouble is they didn't know each other then she was swept up in the law etc. Not being in control is a major concern and the guy took his cake and had no more to do with her for some time.

What she knew she should do but didn't, no foul though, is dump her bf because she couldn't admit he would not compete with that. It's probably a mystery to her. Only she can deal with it, but likes roping everyone else into the deal.

In society if you violate a girl, maybe in nature too, you are basically obligated no matter how tenuously to stick around. Unless of course she feels she can or would want to stick it out in the woods all alone birthing and raising a kid by herself. If the guys a total mess that could be the best option. But she came by him again and tried the hard reset method. It's almost romantic through the fuzz of confusion. And it's tragic it happened to her. Grift on her sure but she is lost after this episode. A bit of a shame but she probably did like the adventure as per her article. It's hard to admit due to the shitty situation.

The real victim is the boyfriend, a victim of two people who rationalized everything away. She's still trying to live it down. A tricky situation.

Another girl much later invited me over and said not to have sex like 20 times then got up me when I complied with her. Just wanted me there and fell asleep beside me. She'd been drinking too. You know I said it, these are hard questions and verge on respect. Women don't respect weakness, it's what hoops you're willing to jump through. I felt she was batty. Blue pill boy in the article was not up to that. Objectively speaking he should have not been with her as no doubt there were all kinds of signs.

Another girl came onto me like hell on fire then begged me not to get attached. Saw her a few times and left it at that. She still said I was hot as all hell afterwards. Go figure.

Yet when people say a guy should just take a girl a few times and go their separate ways because long term is just not right (for instance) that's frowned upon in some quarters.

Title	"I cheated on my boyfriend with my rapist" Wow... you can't make this shit up.
Author	Hencley
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Date	February 9, 2019 3:17 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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