Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works.

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February 13, 2019

I used to work with a girl named “Ciara” at a retail store. We worked together for about 3 years. During that time she was very very attractive and your typical college girl. Slept around a lot while saying she wanted a long term committed relationship and eventual marriage but still just fucking around.


I, on the other hand, was a fat virgin video game playing comic book reading boy. I orbited her for years. I drove her around in my car and talked to her about her boyfriends and shit. And I never understood why she didn’t like me. I just couldn’t see what I was not why the world reacted to me the way it did.


I’m leaving out a lot of details about me because they aren’t exactly relevant to this specific story, but Ciara moved away after college and we remained friends in social media. We never spoke anymore but we’re still friends/followed each other.


About a year after she was gone I hit my lowest low and was very close to suicide. I can’t remember if it was Reddit or somewhere else, but I remember someone making the argument to me that I had nothing to lose anymore and to just spend one year lifting, reading a few books and internalizing the lessons they tried to teach, and eventually building a better wardrobe. The typical advice that’s doled out on a daily basis, nothing magical.


I don’t know why, but I just decided to try it. I was probably scared of death and saw this as a way to procrastinate, honestly.


At any rate, a few months passed and I started to see progress. I was 340lbs when I started at 5’10”. Literally for about 6 months, I would just sit in my car outside the gym and I’d have to force myself to get out and go in. I was embarrassed and ashamed of myself to have gotten so big and disgusting.


I’m proud of the fat that each day, I did it. I got out of the car and went in, did my workout, and read a bit of the books that were suggested to me.


I still had low and difficult days, but I was moving forward.


Fast forward. 150lbs gone. Diet infinitely better. Wardrobe is much much better. And as a result, I feel more confident because of the mountain I’d just climbed and I also look a hell of a lot better. My dad was 100% a “Chad” to the point where one of his more unstable “plates” literally murdered him.


And with all that work, I finally unearthed what I inherited from him as far as genetics go. I lost my virginity and was dating and had friends and hobbies and got a new career. So yeah. That all worked.


But then one day I posted some photos on my Facebook of me the day I got hired by my airline to celebrate. There were pics of me in uniform and of me at the gym and it was basically an album of photos that showed me how far I’d come.


I posted this to share with friends and family because I felt very proud of what i had accomplished.


Guess who commented and then messaged me.




She messaged me and complimented the progress, was super interested in my new career, said we should catch up. At first I was thinking, oh, she’s just being a friend. She legit just wants to catch up. That’s cool.


I was already about to be in Chicago for a wedding shortly so yeah, let’s get together, Ciara. I fucked her literally every single day I was in Chicago. She came to MY hotel.


Again, maybe it’s the naive “blue pill” kid in me, but I thought that was it. But she kept texting me and snapping me nudes and talking about sex and I’d rarely respond because I’m not going to Chicago just for sex.


So she gets mad one day and sends one of those passive aggressive texts saying she hopes I had fun using her and turning into an asshole. I was already annoyed at the time so I responded saying I’m not interested in a long distance relationship and I’m not coming all the way to Chicago for sex.


Immediately she changes her tune and is apologetic and does that baby thing where she apologizes and admits she’s wrong but still wants to look like the innocent baby. Women do that shit a lot.


So then she says that she knows I said I wasn’t interested in a long distance relationship, but what if she came down here. So I said, “it’s not like I wouldn’t let you in if you showed up at my door.”


And she actually made that ~300 mile drive in the winter to come to my house and fuck me. I legitimately could not believe it when she was snapping me pictures of her driving.


I never met my dad but I half way wanted to call him and say “you’re not gonna fucking believe this”


The gas, the day off of work, the mileage on her car, it’s fucking cold outside...just for dick...but it wasn’t just for dick.


Because guess who wants to “try the long distance thing”?


“You’re a pilot you can be in Chicago anytime you want. We already know each other you can just stay with me while you’re up here and we can play house together and see what happens.”


That’s a literal quote from a text she sent me.


There is not a single chance I would ever ever ever date Ciara. She’s boring to talk to and not even all that hot, just a nice body and decent face. And a nasty attitude when she’s not happy.


And, just like I couldn’t see that I was a fat unattractive slob, she can’t see she’s one of the most unappealing relationship prospects ever. I’m 26. She’s 28, turning 29 in July. She has a super slutty background and a nasty attitude and she’s extremely materialistic. I guess this is the downside to wanting your former orbiter. I know too much.


So I told her I wasn’t interested in any relationship. And just like I continued to offer my time and money and friendship years ago, she’s planning on coming back down to stl in a couple weeks to fuck for another weekend when we’re both off.

I wasn’t even aware of The Red Pill until recently but my relationship with Ciara and the way it played out is insanely textbook so I felt compelled to share it.

To the younger men reading, it works. People can call it hateful or toxic or sexist or pathetic or whatever...but it works.

And if it’s stupid, but it works, it’s not stupid. Get to work on you and women will make it easy.

Book list EDIT(remember, it’s easier to read than to do. Books are only the first step):

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

Meditations (I know it’s a cliche book to suggest at this point, but just fucking read it and internalize the lessons. Again, it works.) -Marcus Aurelius

Make Your Bed- Admiral McRaven (this one is the shortest and easiest to read. Straight to the point and clear. Possibly my favorite lesson I’ve learned is from this book. It’s the chapter on “sugar cookies”. It’s worth buying just for that lesson, in my opinion.)

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Title Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works.
Author UnqualifiedPilot
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Date 13 February 2019 06:56 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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[–]Atheist_Utopia280 points281 points  (7 children) | Copy

Wow holy shit, well done. Great success story. I'll be following suit too, soon. Congratulations on your fat loss and becoming an überchad. Hats off, massive respect.

[–]FractalNerve73 points74 points  (5 children) | Copy

Fuck. I'm going to the hotel gymn, even if it's shit. I'm so motivated now.

[–]BloodSurgery29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy

A shitty gym is better than no gym, that's for sure.

[–]bestsparkyalive28 points29 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro you can get shit done in those tiny hotel shacks!!!

[–]Deadlybeef13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Motivation is good. Discipline is better. Stick to discipline, and throw that motivation bullshit away ;)

[–]evilassaultweapon4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Be sure to ask if hotels have arrangements with local gyms as well. Went to a buddy’s Wedding in PA last September; no hotel gym. Asked at the counter and got a pass to walk next door to Gold’s.

[–]FractalNerve0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Oh wow, really glad you mentioned that. Truly a gem! Highly appreciated! =)

[–]TheRedPillRipper14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great job but just remember homie; wear a hat(aka dick down crazy covered)!

[–]ratpoison987242 points243 points  (3 children) | Copy

Lol you did it without the pill. Then discovered the pill.

You’re a champion.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat89 points90 points  (1 child) | Copy

Props also to the guy who gave him red pill advice at the right moment without calling it red pill.

[–]Rubbish271 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This. I slipped redpill social advice to my Chad friend in a frat and bang he’s swimming in pussy instead of being stuck with his boring gf.

[–]jcm9537 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy

This madman reinvented the pill. Big respect

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[–][deleted] 123 points124 points  (9 children) | Copy

Lol. I always wear condoms but she’s also into being dominated so I’ve only ever cum in her mouth or on her face. But yes, I hear you and you’re right. Always a condom. Always.

[–]Avicythe77 points78 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fukken hell nigga you impress me

[–]gtslow44 points45 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bro, don't be surprised if she runs to the restroom and redeposits your spunk. It has happened before, and it can happen to you. Careful what you put your dick in.

[–]ethbytes10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy

Spermjacking is real, flush them rubbers and make sure they drown...

[–]weag5l30 points31 points  (4 children) | Copy

flush them rubbers

Don't be like female idiots who think technology is magic. Plumbing is not a black hole.

[–]dr_spirits14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

I am a plumber and can confirm

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Oh come on.

If being flushed down a toilet doesn't kill sperm I don't know what will lol

And sperm cells tend to die within 30 seconds once they're outside a human body.

[–]weag5l7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

LOL I'm worried about the plumbing, not the sperm. I think a good rule of thumb is: if it doesn't dissolve, it shouldn't go down the drain.

[–]Fosoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

just use the Trojan Yellow condoms with Spermidical lubricant.

[–]BobbyPeru21 points22 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes but she's also approaching the wall and sees $$$ in her eyes at you.

My exact thought. She remembered the fat beta orbiter who got ripped and expected you to still have the fat beta attitude. She was looking for beta bux. I guess she didn’t get that. Props

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[–]toolate4redpill105 points106 points  (7 children) | Copy

Nice work! I tell all the young guys this, no matter how "unobtainable" a young woman is- nature has a way of leveling the playing field if you improve yourself. The old age "women age like milk-men age like wine" so so damn true. By my age women are cast away by society, while I'm celebrated for being successful and young looking for my age.

[–][deleted] 25 points26 points  (3 children) | Copy

To add on to this, people always thought I was much older than I was. I would get offered drinks at restaurants when I was 14. Now, all of a sudden, I look younger than I am (26) to people.

Idk the reason, but it’s true. People guess I’m like 21/22

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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

I went to CFI on my own and started working for my own flight school and I was also able to work as a dispatcher for my airline at the same time. I was already in the door at my regional, so they hired me pretty much straight away.

[–]BrosefJones857 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Early 30s, constantly thought to be in early 20s. Even teen girls are fawning after me (I have mid teen-late teen cousins and their friends love me). I stay away unless they are over the legal age in my area obviously. Older married women with husbands who are... well... not effective in bed have even chased me.

I teach my younger female cousins that exact quote "women age like milk-men age like wine". Have fun but by your mid-twenties you should be married. The younger one has double Ds but isn't some instagram whore. They seem level headed. No they aren't perfect virgins but I don't think that is valuable or even realistic.

[–]B-L-G-Y58 points59 points  (4 children) | Copy

Not that it matters, but it sounds to me like she thinks you've become a better man on the outside but that you might still be her provider on the inside. I can't point to anything that stands out. Just a gut feeling I have considering what she says she wants, your illustrious new career (congrats, man!), and her age.

Anyway man, you've got your head on straight it seems. Good on you.

[–][deleted] 53 points54 points  (1 child) | Copy

Could be, but if that’s true it’s so funny how we literally switched spots as far as who is deluding themselves. In spite of all evidence, I thought I had a chance back then.

Now, she’s paid for food when we’ve been together. She drove to my hotel. She drove to my house, she’s putting in all the effort. Me? I’ve got an interview with a new airline soon and a dog to care for. Both mean infinitely more to me than anything she can offer.

[–]justnicepersonhater3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you are impressed when you look back at the days when women gaslighted you, you wouldn’t believe the intensity they do that shit to themselves.

you should find one girl more because when this one will start disrespecting you, you may find it hard to leave her without backup and you may become clingy beta again

[–]An_Actual_Politician33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

Her reiterating his own career back to him (high earning potential and social value/prestige being a pilot) gave it away. She's trying to lock that paycheck down.

Yep - I agree with you 100%. At least this is a rare post where OP isn't being Capt. SaveAHoe and recognizes her beta-seeking game, too.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAuvergnat8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re right, women’s epiphany phase always help but would have she contacted him without his hard work in the gym and career? And would she be throwing all that sex at him in the vain hope of getting him to commit?

OP will know soon if the girl sees him as a high beta provider or as alpha stock - she’ll either stop seeing him or not after she sees her efforts to get him to commit don’t bear fruits. If it’s the former, she’ll move on to try to ensnare another provider and OP now redpill aware will move on to other plates. In all cases, it’s all benefit to OP

[–]macheagle33 points34 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fantastic story, thanks for sharing. Fellow aviator here. Just a reminder - you might not wanna share the part about having contemplated suicide. You never know who here’s in the FAA or FSDO and may link you to something personally identifiable in your profile. I’ve seen a few cases like this online where the pilot bro lost his job this way. They take this shit seriously for your 2nd/1st class medical as you may know.

From an aviator to another - congratulations on the transformation. Blue skies and tailwinds!

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (1 child) | Copy

Thank you, Germanwings 9525 and MH370. But jokes aside, thanks for the tip.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly, make a new account. Caution is good. Foolproof is better.

[–]theredfinance24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's very motivational! I am glad that you had the power to change and now you can see the results of your work.

Keep moving forward and don't get trapped into oneitis again

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro24 points25 points  (7 children) | Copy


Hope you had a condom or two.

You may or may not be a Chad, but she's fucked up in the head for sure.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (6 children) | Copy

She's a woman in 2019 then

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro16 points17 points  (5 children) | Copy

Well, yes, kind of... but that's another thing.

In my past times I've had a few girls get on tran and ride about 10 hrs to get to me. One was sexually abused as child and had abusive father. Me in turn - I was an alcoholic.

Today I see a friend of mine having a bf literally 2.5 hrs away by plane.

My theory is that people like this actually use those relationships to escape their lives. Nothing more.

The worst idea is "when we'll move in together everything will be fine". It won't be. Numerous proof IRL, on TRP and AskTRP.

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points  (4 children) | Copy

Long distance relationships are fucking dumb. My friend is in one, basically has an invisible friend who influences his life.

[–]Endorsed Contributorex_addict_bro6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

This exactly.

This is an escape from everyday's life and it tends to be addictive.

I remember posting some shit about that long, long, long time ago.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

My friend gets fuck all out of it though, she's overweight and filled with drama. I'm trying to sprinkle a few redpills here and there but I might have to just straight up tell him his gf is a fat bitch

[–]SuperCrazy073 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

I’ve never had nor will I ever have an LDR, but “invisible friend who influences his life” is the best description I’ve heard yet.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Now I think about it, I'm pretty sure Rollo said something similar so don't credit me lol.

[–]Pill-de-Blasio44 points45 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fucking hell dude. This story is eerily similar to my life. Used to be a fat fuck, lived in STL for a little bit, studying to become a pilot, orbited a girl from Chicago area, used to drive up to see her and got nothing out of it, started getting into TRP, now she will lie to her new bf and drive down to see me. Now I’m moving out to California and she is already planning on visiting.

I used to make fun of TRP and shit until I actually took the time to see what it actually is and yeah... shit just fucking works.

Off topic but do you mind if I ask how long it took for you to get all your training and time building done?

I started my training a little while ago but decided to postpone it after a while due to financial reasons and getting a job offer in an unrelated field. I like the job I have now but being a pilot will forever be my dream job. I’m just worried I’m going to wait too long saving up money at this job and I’ll just never get around to it.

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

It took me about 4 years to go from never touching a control yoke to being hired by my current regional airline, but that’s only because I needed a 4-year degree to get the interview I’ve got coming up with a major. I’d say 18 months-two years is reasonable. Get studying and knock out your licenses, work as a CFI/dispatcher while you build hours. That’s what I did.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. You know your situation better than me, but if you know aviation, you also know that now is the time to become a pilot if you want this career. Massive growth in the industry.

[–]toker420blaze0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Kind of similar story here guy. Currently just finished college, skinny guy, trying to become a pilot. Found the red pill and am starting to take control of my life. I approach a lot more, upgraded my wardrobe, and am putting on some decent weight, 167 to 176lbs in about 6 weeks.

Also working on becoming a pilot, have my PPL and am working on instrument. Wx hasn’t been playing ball though so stuck on the sim the last two weeks.

Live in NW suburbs of Chicago. My advice is just go full send and see if you can get a loan for an ATP part 141 school and crank everything out as quick as possible. No point in working at a job that’s whatever when you can have your dream job with just hard work and focus.

[–]cat_magnet21 points22 points  (9 children) | Copy

Your dad was killed by a plate? Awesome work on turning your life around.

[–][deleted] 38 points39 points  (8 children) | Copy

Shot him in the head 9 months, to the day after I was born. Never even held me. Why? Mommy wouldn’t let him see me. I’m not to the point of saying all women are like that, but it’s gonna take a whole fucking lot for any woman to earn my trust

[–]cat_magnet16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

Jesus. Very sorry to hear that. Ive plated a few bi polars and crazies in the past I could see how it happens.

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

Be careful. I don’t deal with women who have mental illnesses that severe. They’re not worth the risk.

[–]SilenceOnTheWire9 points10 points  (5 children) | Copy

Those women are horrible but it's not like your father was a pure and innocent angel led astray by the evil women, you know. It's honorable that you are trying to make him proud but becoming like him maybe isn't the solution. Just pointing it out.

[–]bitopansad9 points10 points  (4 children) | Copy

He was murdered by a plate. That might nothing to do with why his mom won't let his father see the kid? Who knows maybe even he was a blue-pilled beta until conscience kicked in and he knew that marriage was eating him alive.

[–]SilenceOnTheWire5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

It has to do with the fact that he let one crazy woman around and another who wouldn't let him see his kid. Red pilled or not, maybe he wasn't the best role model.

[–]sevenlast0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Sorry man, I saw your anime profile pic and reacted. What you said is legit.

[–]VillagersUnite16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

300 miles for dick sounds strange. Play carefully.

[–]magx017 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

It wasn't for dick. It was for $$$$ She thinks he's making/gonna make bank.

[–]Fyrjefe14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

and I’m not coming all the way to Chicago for sex.

I know that this was a bit of a throw-away line, but it spoke to me about your level of abundance. Clearly, your job and lifestyle have captivated you so much that a woman doesn't get more than a penciling in in your schedule. So much outcome independence. Thanks for sharing and keep doing what moves you.

[–]WizardSenpai30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

so youre saying all that time invested in her is finally paying off? /s

[–]bowhunter611 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

I don’t know you, but, being a dad, I am certain that your father would be very proud of you. Now you just have to keep grinding until you die.

[–]ariky21 points22 points  (4 children) | Copy

Good reading, I like how you skip through. So what is your “aha” moment of being an alpha?

[–][deleted] 50 points51 points  (3 children) | Copy

I guess when I was no longer pretending at not being stuck on one girl. I’m not pretending to have options anymore, I have them. Right now, I really do hold all the cards for a guy who wants to either fuck or get into a LTR. I have a great career, I have a healthy network of friends and professional contacts, I’m fit, I’m attractive physically, I dress well, I’m a good conversationalist. I could go on.

I have the things women want to fuck, and the things they want to marry. And I’m well aware of where I stand and what I have.

Compared to the majority of women, I’m the rarer commodity.

It’s like when women know they can get away with anything because they know the guy wants to fuck them. Only I know that they want to fuck me, AND that they want to be with me. And I know I have more and better options than she is, most of the time.

[–]cat1eren6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hey man, what were the books you read? Im interested. Also, what would your advice to a 17 year old guy who is getting ready for collage/studying? Any advices? Im really in need of some, althought everyday life gets better with red pill.

[–]jihocech11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Choose the college wisely. STEM.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

I posted them in another comment in this thread but as for advice, focus on you and your own development. Obvious advice is obvious-fitness, grades, professional network, get some hobbies that make you get up and learn something (woodworking, blacksmithing, cooking, building things, working in cars or motorcycles, dancing, a martial art, whatever. Just not video games or anything passive).

Definitely read the books, though and think critically on the lessons.

[–]donkey_democrat11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy

Watch out, she may be plotting something. She sounds a little crazy. Consider switching girls

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Probably 1% of the guys on here have reached the point that you have. Well fucking done my man, you've earned it.

[–]AllahHatesFags5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good for you! It's awesome to realize your old oneitis ain't shit and that you can and are doing better than her.

[–]Son_of_lakes5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nice work. Curious, which books were initially suggested when you started your transformation?

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points  (0 children) | Copy

How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie

Meditations (I know it’s a cliche book to suggest at this point, but just fucking read it and internalize the lessons. Again, it works.) -Marcus Aurelius

Make Your Bed- Admiral McRaven (this one is the shortest and easiest to read. Straight to the point and clear.)

[–]robikin5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy

First time commenting on TRP after a year and a half of lurking.

Had to comment because it's the first time I see a post about someone who's also an airline pilot. I can definitely relate with the part where people (girls especially) from your past hit you up out of nowhere to meet up/ catch up, pretty crazy. You made the right decision, with our job and this mindset towards girls, you're good. I know a lot of pilots (and I'm sure you do too) dating girls in one city while they're always flying and you can see how it affects their work, focus and mental health. It's a job where getting attached to women can make EVERYTHING go sideways extremely fast. Some guy told me he's scared his girl will leave him cause he's never there, and I heard about some other guy who asked the captain if he "could be pilot monitoring for every sector of that day because he can't stop thinking about something that happened with his girlfriend who lives in Paris".

Great post, keep doing what you doing. And like I always say to my pilot friends, do as many ILS touch and go's as you can on the bitch then divert due to runway flooded.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

“Do as many ILS touch and go’s as you can on the bitch” 🤣🤣 that’s funny.

Just out of curiosity, what do you fly? Im on the e145 and hopefully I’ll be changing airlines and flying the 737 soon.

[–]robikin1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Haha so many great aviation related jokes, it's a shame most people don't understand what the fuck we're talking about.

I'm on A320 brother, got my airline job back in december, I love it to be honest, jets just give you a powerful feeling.

You'll love the 737, did my MCC JOC on it, you have a lot more freedom when it comes to manoeuvering and making decisions then we do on Airbus though, can't lie.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well I could still end up on Airbus, especially with the airline I’m interviewing with. And if I do, at least I’ll have that posh ass table to eat off of

[–]robikin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That brings me to one of my other fav things to say when someone on Boeing talks shit " Well at least we got a fucking table"

Best of luck and enjoy embraer 145, it will give you a lot of knowledge and skill as it flies almost like a heavier cessna, which will help when you move on to 737 or airbus

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Big smile for you sir. Shit like this is great, it's nice to see a woman give that much effort for a man.

Hope you two are friends a long time, she sounds like a great chick to see now and then.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s loud annoying and entitled, but if she’s gonna drive to me, feed me, and fuck me, I’ll keep talking to her for a few more weeks

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Congrats on your improvement.

Careful with the girl though, that she doesn't pull the goalie on you.

Since she liked to be dominated, have a look at these:

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women

-How to lead when she wants to follow.

Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.

-The Field Guide to playing knotty games with naughty girls.

[–]Synthetic_Citizen4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Im glad you have her figured out. Shes approaching the wall and remembers how easily you parted with your time, aytention and resources when you orbited her in the past. She expected to snag you easily as a provider but you wont fall for it, her plan now is to display an oscar winning performance of how she is worthy of your commitment and wiggle her way into your like by using the promise of sex on tap. Shes probably hoping one day you will forget to wear a condom, she may even blow you and use your semen to impregnate herself. The posibilities with a girl like this are endless.

I would suggest cutting her out of your life in order to avoid the risk. She remembers you as a beta and still sees you as a beta. Its like blood in the water, she believes in her ability to gain your trust and manipilate you into committing because she has doen it easily in the past.

[–]geo_gan4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

She is playing such an obvious game she might as well be walking around with Nintendo controllers in her hands 😄

[–]HotHead1213 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

You just motivated me and im really proud of you m8 keep up the good work.

[–]opper-hombre13 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

so are we just gonna ignore the fact a plate murdered your dad?

But honestly, Good work man. I don't even know who you are, but I'm proud of you.

[–]Wolveryn2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had a similar kind of experience entering into the red pill world. I was never fat, I was skinny fat. Unhealthy and definitely not muscley or confident in my appearance to the outside world...

Anyway I made a lot of relationship mistakes once I started getting positive feedback, twice I fell in love, became blue pilled only for her to lose attraction permanently, and I ended up marrying an extremely attractive women who ultimately cheated on me because she would get attention from other men, often wealthier/better looking/taller than me...and now I’m divorced, I’m 32, I have enough plates and ability to pick up new ones so easily that I basically have the problem of too much pussy.

I only mention this to point out that, your red pill success has vulerabilities that can lead you back down blue pilled roads... at least in my experience anyway.

If you could learn one thing from me, never get married. And if you don’t believe me, talk to any guy that is married and get him to tell the truth about marriage after a few beers..

Zero men have a positive experience on the matter. Some will lie except to their closest buddies and say it’s a good experience... but over time you’ll come to see just how fucken dangerous it is your life’s happiness.

[–]dDiegoDLV3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy


Be greatfull you are a man. OP and Ciara both bought into the lies society tells men and women.

OP got in shape and launched a good career. Now Ciara is getting major tingles. She maxes out at FWB though. Strong men don't want a promiscuous woman. No amount of shaming, telling us to man up, or propaganda is going to change that fact. OP was able to leave his mistakes in the past. Ciara isn't so lucky.

The comeback story of the year! Great job OP! Do not knock her up. Flush your condoms etc.

[–]Bad_nuggets692 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Congratulations dude.

This is the kind of story that this subreddit is built for.

[–]budfox262 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Loved reading your story. Loved the line where you said you wanted to call your late father and tell him about your achievement. I'm sure he's 'watching'. :)

[–]NuclearMelonMan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Would you mind sharing all the books you read that helped you become who you are today?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What were the books you read?

[–]ArdAtak1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I love stories like this. Stories that highlight the evolution of a man's mind (rather than stories about how an HB 6.2 touched your arm when you made her laugh). Good for you bro. Keep on keepin' on.

[–]F_Dingo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

She drives 300 miles for an O, nice job man.

[–]DigitalDragonSlayer1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s like gravity, fuckers in the first century may not know it, but jump off a cliff and it’s there. The SMP, and ways to improve and increase SMV always existed, whether one believes in it or not is aware of it. TRP is just the first, publicly known collection of SMP/SMV content and ideas crowdsourced from men who care. Glad you improved, and glad you discovered TRP, and even better you are sharing your story.

RIP to your dad.

[–]juddshanks1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This was a great read.

I think your dad would be unbelievably proud if he saw how you'd turned out and how you'd overcome your weaknesses.

[–]OSaraiva1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nice job! What did you do to improve your career in a year? That's something that usually takes some time.

[–]gerfcam1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

What happened with your dad and his plate

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

According to his/my cousins that I spoke with, he was sleeping with a bunch of different women and had them paying for his apartment, his clothes, his car, everything. Tensions built and built and one of the girls went to his place and ended up shooting him in the head. The true story of what happened there, I’ll never know. So I just let it go

[–]bitopansad2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

And people wildly speculating about him not being a true role model. I'm pretty sure there's a backstory which the OP doesn't know and since we're talking about RP and not Role Models, let's keep it at that fellas.

To OP, good job. The biggest thing that controls us mortals is fear. I remember the time when I was ragged in college so bad that one day I just decided to DGAF and tell me, ' They're not gonna kill me, so what do I have to lose '. Trust me, in a room full of 100 guys, that's what earns you respect, and saves your ass. And if that works on guys, that girls are no match to that fucking awesome aura of yours.

It also made me a particularly red pilled 21 year old back then.

[–]Kevin19Fish1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Congratulations on taking control of your life man

[–]___Galaxy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How does it feel being a chad?

[–]Oscalev1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good for you man shit like this makes me so happy. It really blows my mind how well the advice here works if you actually apply it. Very happy for you and your father would be proud. Keep up the good work and have fun out there brother.

[–]InformalCriticism1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

a super slutty background and a nasty attitude and she’s extremely materialistic

Congratulations, you're fucking women who are approaching the wall at terminal velocity.

Great job taking real advice. Don't stop. Sorry about your dad getting murdered. Hope they didn't just slap that bitch on the wrist.

[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillcad1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

First, well done. Your life is now yours to do whatever you want


My dad was 100% a “Chad” to the point where one of his more unstable “plates” literally murdered him.

The stalking and harrassment by females who become obsessed Alpha Widows is very very real. I have had to get attorneys involved myself

[–]AdmirableStretch0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Good for you man, very motivating.

[–]jon940 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Fellow STL guy here. You done good.

Fun fact, I used to work on the ambulance at lambert

[–]bestsparkyalive0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

We’re all super proud of how far you’ve came and we’re so happy you’re alive and with us my friend. You’re an inspiration.

[–]ainihon0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

A PILOT in here?!! This is insanely motivating!

[–]SuperCrazy070 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Well, an unqualified one anyway.

[–]ainihon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just noticed the username hahaha

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I lucked out. I have loose skin not nearly as much as other people at my height and who weighed as much as I did. That, and I do lift (shocker, I know), so I’ve been able to add about 5lbs and it’s noticeable when I’m naked, but nothing major.

If it was bad, I’d have the surgery. But at this point, I don’t think I will

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Dude what do u look like? Seriously

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

I’d put myself at 6.5 or 7/10. I’m handsome and (now) I’m very fit, but I’m not especially tall at 5’10”.

I’m definitely handsome, but I’m not like Brad Pitt level attractive. I appeal to some womens’ tastes very well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Bruh pm me a pic (blur out ur eyes). I need to see this lol

[–]MasterShake7770 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

How long did it take you to get to this point once you started?

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It’s been about 5ish years

[–]WakeUpAlreadyDude0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is a great story. Amazing job.

[–]BrosefJones850 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I always let girls know this "I am not looking for a LTR right now. It's not completely off the table but very very unlikely. Just enjoying myself". I say that partly to cover myself, partly to keep her interested and partly because, hey, you never know.

More girls than not are fine with this but you get a few that will text you after a couple fucks with "so where have you been?" and get passive aggressive. I just ignore it.

[–]setsuna00 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Idk you but I'm proud you got so far. I'm going through a lot right now and needed to hear this. It's crazy how we can change our life with the right mindset and action.

[–]Tek_Analyst0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Stay humble OP.

Your story is the most basic thing that a normal male should aspire to do/be.

You’re now being orbited by a female that’s post wall. Her clock is ticking.

My advice to you is to chill, and have fun. Focus on saving money. Find a younger conservative girl with the values you want and vet her very well. No matter how confident you’ve become, a bad relationship can turn it all around again.

Keep grinding. Stories like these are the good ones.

[–]GreetingsFromErf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Enjoy yourself, but watch it. She is at the age where baby rabies takes hold.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Great story. I’m older now but my best friend from the Navy became a pilot and told me stories of countless women that approached him on layovers and many ONS he had. Something about casual sex with someone they will never see again is obviously a real turn on to women so it’s definitely out there if you want it.

[–]magx010 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just tell her how much pilots really make and she'll be gone before you can say "new number who dis?"

[–]supermario2180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When the orbiter roles reverse... This was very satisfying to read. Thanks for sharing

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Thanks for sharing and congrats on your life win dude! Color me inspired.

[–]JustLurkingIgnore0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Had a similar experience with a woman I met on vacation once, before the discovery of TRP.

I was wingman and figured I had no chance with her and just decided to not chase/orbit her for the entire week while her friend and my friend hung out, drank, fucked etc... I spent a lot of money just getting there, didn't want to just drink all weekend and try to get laid.

While they were all hungover or screwing, we'd just go and do activities on the island together like scuba diving and jet skiing and all that touristy shit. I'd tell her what I was doing, welcome to join or not, leaving with or without at 7am, not paying for you. I made gentle fun of her for sucking at basically every activity and being terrified of the zip lines.

The last night of the trip she comes on hard to me and somehow I don't miss it and we end up fucking. Everyone gets on a plane the next morning, goes their separate ways. She sends me a couple texts wanting to know if it was a ONS or if I'd like to get serious and I tell her I don't do long distance relationships. She lives two states and 8 hours drive away. She took off work the next Friday, spent all day driving and we banged the whole weekend - morning noon and night, she left Monday morning.

We made tentative plans for me to drive to see her sometime over the next few weeks, but as you all know by now, her feelings changed due to the time apart and it didn't happen.

[–]tempolaca0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

TRP is incredible. I had an oneitis for years that I stalked and did dozens of beta shit, she was basically out of reach for me, forever.

Using some TRP techniques like improving SMV locally (asking some friends to talk good things about me in front of her) and not being a total asshole, fucked her last week and now she's buying me a valentine gift, go figure.

[–]AnAmericanTrollinWA0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i'm signing up for la fitness to get bigger. congrats. you're a real inspiration.

[–]Ppppap0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Being a pilot has a lot to do with it as well. It's one of those things that just turns a woman on. Like being an Italian to European blonds.

Pilot and being an ok weight together makes you desireable. You are higher on the smv than her. But no time to relax. Go for broke and make it so that just your looks is enough.


[–]Skyhawk_And_Skyhead0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Howd you end up paying for flight school?

[–]anti-hypergamist0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well done, man. You've improved yourself and benefited from it. To the guy who keeps knocking this story: Who among us has not had a oneitis? He is not bragging about getting used-up poon. He's talking about getting over a very emotionally difficult time in his life.

[–]CuntarianOverlord0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Dude can you really not see that now you have MONEY and that is what she really wants? come on man. this is a prime example of a reason to go MGTOW

[–]justnicepersonhater0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

weird. once woman sees you as low tier, her opinion wont change 99% of the time, even if you really change.

she must be desperated for someone with house, good job and body. she probably thinks 'i wannuh marriage'

anyway gratz

[–]farendsofcontrast0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

My analysis : 1)She already knew you were into her and orbited her at one point 2)She’s had her spin around the CC and is getting into “settle down” territory 3)She sees you, one of her orbiters in a really good position 4)“Can I extract beta bucks and benefits from this” is a question that crosses her mind 5) Tries to reel you in 6) Plot twist: the new you, a redpilled man does her head in 7)Now she’s reeled in

I think this played out pretty well. But stay on guard though don’t let her hold you down. Good job.

[–]RompeChocha0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Only these 3 books?

I've had the 1st once from years ago.

But congrats on all your success.

[–]ChesterRickman0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Congratulations on your story, it's inspiring as hell. I had the exact same thing going on, but I fucked it up by being so happy I thought "Fuck I love life so damn much everything will work out regardless" and reverted to the blue pill for a moment which killed the whole thing. I still hate the part of me that's done it.

[–]dawgsen0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I could relate in so many points, you may inspire me to share my story. And two of the books I can recommend to anyone. Much respect to you, I really enjoy reading red pill stories like yours. This shit can be harsh, but it's life changing.

[–]Fosoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

you need to be careful she doesn't impregnante herself with your sperm. i don't care if ur wearing condoms

[–]suxxos0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Huh, I didn't know you had to go on redpill to learn that being fat is considered unattractive. Lol.

[–]mgtow_daddy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Being attractive and loaded makes you attractive to a desperate, wall hitting thot? Who would have thought!

Tell me when you get 18 years old hb10s chasing you thid way. Lol, not go na happen.

[–]2Yakatonker-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

"The traveling woman", its a concept I've seen myself. The things women will do for what they perceive as quality dick, though as you rightly pointed out she was doing this more out of desperation for fear of not locking down a quality partner. She also likely perceived you as an easier target because she likely assumed you to have some lingering beta characteristics. Ergo she likely thought you'd be an easy, quality mark.

Though its important for the young and inexperienced to understand women, not men have far more geographic mobility in terms of partners. MT-DNA(female DNA branch) historically is shown to be vastly more mobile, not surprising given the basic premise of the female hypergamous instinct and the nature of such things in the sexual market place.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

So basically you were born to win beacuse your father was Chad and you inherited his genes? Interesting. Most people are not as lucky as you are.

[–]Managicall-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

tl;dr kid grows up and discovers adults don't give a fuck.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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