This is my list, please comment what I may be missing (that isn’t too broad/obvious):

  • Eye contact
  • Don’t talk a ton (talk more in the beginning though)
  • If they follow you/comply, they’re interested
  • Push/pull
  • Body language
  • Kino is important
  • Always approach
  • Don’t fidget
  • Take up space
  • Be disagreeable
  • Be genuine
  • Premise>intent
  • Talk with emotion
  • Make statements/playful accusations, not questions
  • Don’t look at your hands when using kino, look at the person
  • Use kino right away (handshake or something)
  • Everyone else is bored, go talk to them
  • Approach girls AND guys (appear sociable)
  • Don’t answer many questions straight
  • Maintain mystery
  • Don’t justify
  • Dopamine spikes (useless shit) are bad
  • Focus on the bigger picture
  • Understand to be understood
  • Tease
  • Listen and apply
  • HAVE FUN (#1 PRIORITY)
  • Upward spiral
  • Don’t try to get something out of people, but still have premise
  • Being fun (emotion) > being logical
  • EMOTION
  • FreeTour talks with emotion for example
  • Be suggestive
  • Lift
  • Don’t react, set how you want to feel.
  • Who do you want to be?
  • Stay out of most drama
  • Use all the power you have over someone (also increases power)
  • Use non-verbal push/pull
  • Balance attraction and comfort (but attraction is most important)
  • Don’t be TOO much of a dick
  • If you’re treating someone like you’re attracted to them, assume they are interested in you in the first place.
  • When giving shit make sure to flirt/get them invested/attracted to you
  • Show good interest in the beginning to get them hooked, and then pull it all back. Now they will chase you, if done correctly
  • Pressure flip: ask them where they’re from, then say “oh I live close/far away from them.” They’ll ask “where are you from?” 99% of the time, which means they are now the one leading the conversation if you continue to talk right/treat it that way
  • Don’t try too hard in group setting
  • “On the concept of silence...when a first date is going well, I’ll often stop talking entirely and leave a little smirk on my face. I play a game where I don’t talk and see how long she’ll keep nervously babbling on about something as it gets funnier and funnier to me. Eventually she’ll start nervously laughing and be like “whattt...what are you thinking aboutttt” then I’ll start laughing and say something like “I have a feeling you’d just keep talking forever if I didn’t say anything”. Then she laughs and says “omg you’re such an asshole,” hits you, and then you can go back to kino/rapport building. Sort of a secret weapon. Do not try if autistic.”
  • For that last point, make sure you have a good convo before silent smirk mode
  • “Everything you say should hold value and meaning. Because most men don't realize this, they say more than they need to and they decrease the attraction. The more you talk, the more you give away from yourself and the less your body language speaks for you. Remember that everybody likes to talk about themselves so let them talk.”
  • Women are childlike, so treat them like it. They will love it.
  • Watch actions, not words
  • Aloof/smirky/body language/less words/less emotion/still use some when fitting
  • Challenges are fun, try to beat them
  • Focus on being better than you were yesterday
  • Women will do more for you when the are insecure - use that to your advantage by making them feel that way
  • When in doubt, escalate
  • Assume attraction
  • Have multiple friend groups
  • Don’t let people walk all over you
  • Laziness is failure - grab yourself by the balls and seize the moment. Get shit done
  • Don’t let other people cuck you in conversation: Get your dick out there and slay
  • Beta males try to avoid rejection/conflict
  • Don’t think your way into confidence, do your way into confidence
  • Never choose the path of least resistance
  • Smile, nod, and then do whatever the fuck you were going to do anyway
  • Don’t wait for negative emotions to go away, because they will always be there. Take action NOW
  • You’ll never feel ready, so JUST DO IT
  • Walk into every room dick first
  • Posture
  • Breath deeply/in a controlled manner; it helps with confidence/relaxation
  • Take action, but have a plan
  • “Where would you have your first tattoo?” This is a really good sexual question to escalate. You can also use his as an excuse to touch them in certain places because they might be good tattoo locations
  • Talk even when you get no response