Playing Hard to Get Is Effective, According to Psych Researchers

barbodelli · 2019-03-20T17:51:31+00:00

I may be an extreme outlier. But this happens to me all the time.

If I'm in a relationship how interested I am is often proportional by how much I feel the whole thing is "in the bag". If I feel confident about it I'm constantly thinking "is this really the one I want. Is she good looking enough. Can i get a better looking girl". Soon as things turn sour though I start treating her like a princess.

I'm a big believer in lookism. But there is definitely an advantage to behaving a certain way once you do find yourself in a relationship.

Njere · 2019-03-18T01:49:06+00:00

Direct link to the study

Title	Playing Hard to Get Is Effective, According to Psych Researchers
Author	Njere
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Date	March 18, 2019 1:48 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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