As I get close to 30 I've noticed that hitting up younger girls (19/20) I get more and more shit tests and this reinforces negative hesitation towards even trying. Not just from the girls but from their friends and my friends.

My cousin who I'm close with got mad at me because I was hitting up her friends (19yo) and called me a creep.

You guys who are more practiced in this area what mentality do you have and what are some tips to make this shit work?