How come all of the girls are flaking?

rpsheepdog · 2019-04-09T14:21:53+00:00

When you're meeting the girls are you both drunk? Plausible deniability for her for the "oh I was drunk and having fun I dont really want to date though" excuse?

Or are you grabbing chicks at the end of the night who are just horny and/or ovulating and then don't want anything after it.

There is also the option that you might not be the top of a girl's list. They have a collection of dudes that they're usually working

Snowboard18 · 2019-04-09T14:23:40+00:00

Most likely those girls you are meeting at the club are just there seeking male validation and that’s it , they don’t really want anything past validation in the moment and to feel like they are attractive to men. Other than that maybe you seemed to interested over text the next day, or something else

RedSkeller · 2019-04-09T14:59:38+00:00

Clubs and bar behavior doesn't count, same with online dating/social media. It's all a medium for attention. Essentially, you're meeting low quality women who flake because they flock to these environments that allow them to have shitty behavior. Find better spots and better women.

SalporinRP · 2019-04-09T18:38:31+00:00

Why do you only meet girls at the club? That's a terrible way to meet girls for anything other than one-night stands.

thrownawayisland · 2019-04-09T21:46:45+00:00

At this point I've gotten a million friggin numbers from bars and day game. I have concluded that bar girls are just there for validation and will give out their numbers but never follow up. Most likely because they are too drunk to remember who they gave their number too.

Don't bother with drunk girls, as it's also a consent risk if they wake up and decide they really meant no depending on their emotional state that morning.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-04-10T07:15:00+00:00

Dude, whatever happens on the weekend, stays on that specific weekend. A club is a highly sexual environment fueled by tight clothes, alcohol, and loud music. There is an abnormal amount of sexual stimulus in the air. Chicks would be down to do a gangbang on the dancefloor in that moment even.

You need to beat the iron while it's hot. The girls are dressed to the 9s.They want to be seen. They want to be seen at their most attractive. They want to be lusted after. They want to know you find them desirable. They want to get fucked. They're not out there to find some sweet guy to go on cutesy dates with during the week. The club is a sexual environment. Club/bar girls are not really quality girls. Your objective should always be to fuck them that same night while they still have all those good feelings rushing in their heads. They feel sexy, the music is entrancing, the alcohol is in their system, their inhibitions are lowered, they're horny, the lights are dim, it's prime time mating season. And here u come with your bullshit, trying to see them outside of that environment and glow. It tells them that you are not in on shit. It tells them that you're not a dude who fucks. Forget phone numbers, forget Sunday, forget the entire upcoming week. The superbowl is that same night! You have to be ready to perform, that same night!. So instead of "Give me your number blah blah blah", I want more "Let's get out of here while we're still fresh". Because by the time they leave the club without you, they've already forgotten about you. You're just one of the hundreds of dudes who's dicks they will grind on this month. Next weekend it's a different club with different dicks. Their plans are only for the night. They live in the moment because they only live once and tomorrow is never promised. So secure the pussy for that same night while she's in the heat of the moment. After that night of fucking, if she's interested she can reach out for dick during the week. And that's how u plate them

"We'll scale that wall when get there" - They say

Title	How come all of the girls are flaking?
Author	ohRyZze
Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	April 9, 2019 2:13 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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