When I first started approaching women, the best advice I ever received was to stop giving a damn what they think about me. I stopped caring about their criticism and consider it a test. And indeed, women will criticize you just to see how strong you are, and to see if you are really capable to go for what you want. That means that if you quit on a first barrier, you are considered weak.   The more you show her that her reactions don’t affect you, the more attractive you will be.   So, thanks to this advice and lifting I got laid a lot.   However, as my goals changed from just having sex to having a harem of girls that give me whatever I ask of them, I started to think differently. All of a sudden, I realized that getting the girl is one thing, but keeping her or making her go absolutely crazy for me is another.   So, this guide is about my journey on how to make a girl go crazy for you. How to build emotions in her body so strong that you will be amazed at what she will be willing to do when she falls in love with you. I can tell you that it’s a lot of fun, especially if you have multiple girls like this.   I should say that this post is for advanced people. If you’ve just started in the game, this can only confuse you.  

Romance

  When it comes to women, there is one thing I never understood, romance. What is romance and why is something considered romantic? Why do some romantic movies like Titanic get so much attention while others just fail?   I started to read romance novels, I thought if I could make a woman feel like she is in a romance novel, then no matter what I do, she would still be willing to do things for me.   It was a hell of a job. After a few books, my game improved, but I still could not answer the question, “What is the main ingredient in every good romance story?”. Until I went to a different country.  

My Trip to Albania

  After some time, I totally forgot about understanding romance, or to be honest, I stopped trying to figure that out.   A few months later I went to one country in south-eastern Europe called Albania. Now, my first and last name sound Slavic, and I was told I wouldn’t be welcome in Albania because of racism and nationalism, but what the heck, I still went.   As soon as I got in the capital, I started to approach on the street. Cold approach. I heard a lot of stories about countries in eastern Europe, how their women love Americans, and that if you have money, you would be swept in pussy.   Well, I was dead wrong. I had terrible results in my first two weeks, so bad I wanted to move on. The country is conservative, so girls don’t dress as sluts. Outside big cities a lot of women are still virgins, saving themselves for marriage, but there are rumors they only do anal before marriage, which was crazy to hear.   So, I thought: “Maybe in this country women are different, maybe women here don’t like sex, maybe women here are not biologically the same as women in other parts of the world.” They almost tricked me into believing that this country is just full of unicorns. Almost.  

The Revelation

  Luckily, I started seeing a girl that explained how things work there. She said that for most girls it’s a risky thing to be seen with a stranger, especially American. She said her reputation in the city would be in danger, and maybe even her family would be ashamed of her. This is when I realized where I was wrong.   Since I am not a guy that gives up easily on challenges, and women in this country are fucking amazing, I started using my brain. I understood that I needed to approach differently.   So, I changed my game a bit:  

-If I directly approach a girl it would be only if she is alone and there are little or no people around us.   -If I wanted to approach a girl in a group. I would first let her know that I am a foreigner, maybe by talking to her friends or asking something in English. Then I would create strong eye contact and then I would show her discretely to meet outside.   -Another thing I did is that if she is with a guy, boyfriend, cousin, or her father, I would wait for her to be alone, even if it’s for a minute, and then I would give her a piece of paper with my phone number.   Now, all of this was a lot of fun for me since all my life I have been approaching directly. I felt like I was in some movie with a mission to get laid as much as I could. Because I felt I was doing something that was forbidden and that I needed “to hide”, so that’s exactly how women I approached felt.   And they fucking loved it.   All of this skyrocketed my results. Women in this country all of a sudden became the biggest sluts I ever encountered. It was so easy to get their numbers. The only thing I changed is that I acted like what we do should remain a secret and no one should know about us.   I became their biggest secret. I became the reason they were lying to their parents, their brothers and even their friends. I gave them adrenalin because they were risking getting caught with an “American” or “Slavic enemy.”   But what I noticed is that it doesn’t matter what society thinks. Society can be for or against our relationship, but it’s the family that matters the most.   The more her father was on the conservative side, the kinkier she would get in bed.   What surprised me is that those girls didn’t only want sex with me, they also wanted a relationship. Even though they knew their family will be against it, they still wanted to see me every day. And a lot of girls “fell in love.” They thought it was all romantic, “just like in some movie” one Albanian girl said.  

The Main Ingredient

  Of course, I finally understood romance. Every relationship in romantic movies and books had some real hard barrier standing against the relationship that had to be overcome for the couples to be together.   In Anna Karenina, that barrier was the fact that she was married to another guy and possible social repercussions of cheating. In Titanic, the main barrier was that the guy was from the lower class, and of course – death at the end of the movie.   The best romantic stories don’t have a happy end. Most of them try to get an impression on you by making you feel sad. Sadness is one of the strongest emotion a human being can feel, so they target sadness to create that strong emotion and to get you hooked. Women especially love to get hooked on sadness. That is why they would often pick a “bad boy” or “womanizer” because they know it will end badly for her. Does this give you some ideas?  

There are other romantic movies and TV shows, and each and every one of them is showing a couple that “isn’t supposed to be together.” Different race, different religion, class, nation, etc. All of that makes a great romance story and women will pay a lot to see a good romantic movie that will make them feel sad…  

And then when you are able to recreate that movie in her real life, she would do anything for that feeling. So, once you have the ability to make her feel strong emotion, you will have complete control over her.  

All of this is great, but how do I benefit from it?  

Well, first of all, find a girl that isn’t supposed to be with you. If you are a different race, find a girl whose father is racist. I know, but it won’t sound stupid anymore when you have a girl travel 10 hours on a plane just to get your dick sucked.   Are you an Indian or Asian guy finding it hard to date white girls? Find girls that are from a racist family. Are you a Trump fan? Find a girl who is liberal and tell her that you love trump and that is the reason you two could never be together.   Remember, if the barrier between you two is not strong enough, you need to create it!   You need to always potentiate your differences and how her father “would never accept you,” how the society would never approve of your relationship and because of that you two would need to hide. It may sound stupid to you, and logically it is very stupid. But it is not what you say, but how you make her feel.   After my revelation I started to use more lines like this:   -“We could never be together.” -“Why.” -“Your father would never approve of our relationship because of x.” -“You should never be with a guy like me, I can only bring sadness into your life.” -“I don’t think we can date, I am white, and you are black/Indian/Arab/Asian, etc.”   Now, you can create barriers even if they are not really there. You can say that you are a traveler and a long distance relationship could never work or you can even say you have a wife and kids (and in that case you even put a challenge for her competing with your wife). That also works.  

But, natural barriers are still the ones that work the best. After my trip to this country, I went to Lebanon and I approached women from Lebanon pretending to be Jewish.   Then I went to Tel-Aviv saying that I am Arab, Palestinian. And since Jewish girls in Israel are really brainwashed, at first, they kinda rejected me. But when I got persistent, her body beat her mind and they became my sluts for a couple of nights, and they were kinky as hell. Dirty talk on a racist base is a must with Jewish girls.   And the look on their faces when they find out I am actually American is amazing. It’s like someone turned off the TV just when the best part is supposed to come.   When you create barriers you are supposed to be creative. Let’s say that there are no “natural barriers” between you two, let's say you are both white American and her father is a guy who just doesn’t give a fuck who is dating her daughter. Well, you will have a tough job. But then think about the reasons why your relationship is impossible.   Maybe you have a problem with being faithful and you want a harem. Maybe you are not the type of guy that would be able to have a long-distance relationship. Maybe your family is a part of a cult and you are forbidden to date “outsiders.” Well, whatever it is, bring it up!   This guide is perfect for people that have excuses.  

“I am an Asian/black/Indian/Amish” and I could never date 10’s . Or “her father doesn’t like me.” If you only knew that those are not your weaknesses but strengths.  

But remember, if you are dating a girl, you should always keep her on the leash. You probably heard that before.   Always talk like your relationship can’t last. The reason doesn’t matter, what matters is that you put in her mind that you two just can't be together, it’s forbidden, impossible, etc.