https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/bes9si/deer_is_exclusive_to_females/el895ti

/u/redpillbrigade17 makes the comment that those who are asking the questions set the frame. DEERing results in an immediate relinquishing of power and ascertiveness.

The comment immediately made me think of an auditor; lining questions at an engineer or technician about their workplace activities and their impact on a companies compliance with regulation.

In this case, the absolute best thing to do is stfu and answer with the absolute bare minimum needed to tick the box. Give up nothing because saying too much will immediately line up further questioning or perception of guilt, weakness, non compliance, or other fuckery.

Is that a fair analogy?