MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]

trpfieldreport · 2014-10-14T21:21:29+00:00

Two years or so ago, I would have completely identified with this guy.

I would have watched this and thought "Wow, she's such a bitch."

Now I watch it and think "Wow, he's such a bitch."

23 years believing I could be that guy and get that girl. Fuck that shit.

forgeror · 2014-10-14T22:07:58+00:00

The moment he said, something something my sexy ass.

She instantly responded, "that's inappropriate".

It's a classic example of what RSD Tyler describes as "Putz Shaming".

If a guy who's an alpha in her eyes says the exact same sentence to her she would be giggling.

http://youtu.be/HGEO6ig8WsM

SaveRana · 2014-10-15T04:08:37+00:00

I cast this show; well most of the people. Every season of the show, I interviewed hundreds of people to get the few stories you see. It was a crazy insight into relationship and gender dynamics.

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doritoesNcoffee · 2014-10-14T21:43:42+00:00

This is why you never take advice from women on how to pick up women

Samantha said: "Be yourself, but most of all, have fun!"

Be yourself? A chick that is in the same league as him, friendzoned him and is giving him terrible advice and this sucker is swallowing all of it.

rporion · 2014-10-14T22:45:42+00:00

What I dont get, I mean, I kind of get it, but really, I have skimmed a few episodes, and those girls are just so mediocre.

I am not hating on them, but they are nothing special, nothing to really sneeze at either.

And yet, when dealing with mediocre men, the princess comes out full force...

I know why, I am not surprised, but if they keep wondering where all the good men have gone 30 and upwards, well, where do they think they went ?

justskatedude · 2014-10-14T23:30:38+00:00

That guy acts and even looks so much like who I used to be I get shivers. I wish we lived in a world where guys like that would be swimming in all the poon they want because they deserve it. He is an all around great guy that would never screw anyone over. Too bad when girls say they want nice guys that is just a rouse.

ITHOUGHTYOUMENTWEAST · 2014-10-15T02:10:43+00:00

As he was about to ask her, I started feeling nauseous and having almost panic attacks. I was in a similar situation a long time ago and I see the old me in this guy. Hopefully he learns how fucked up of a place he put himself in.

sorry0fucks · 2014-10-15T03:51:55+00:00

Been exactly where he is. Biggest thing I realize years later is that even how much she says "I value your friendship" and "I know you better than anyone else". SHE ISN'T YOUR FRIEND.

She only likes you because you give her everything she needs without her giving you a damn thing. When you need her she won't be there.

Hokuto199x · 2014-10-14T23:32:19+00:00

It's sad that she knows he is in love with her the whole time, that the feeling isn't mutual, but still keeps him in that orbit. Why? Because he has his uses; just not as a mate.

[deleted] · 2014-10-15T00:27:20+00:00

If there is one thing I have noticed, it is that women will treat Betas and Omegas the way that they themselves have been treated by Alphas.

She remembers all the guys who have been to her house, go through her things, call her a slob, make fun of the way she dresses. She figures the Betas and Omegas act like women so they want to be treated like women too.

It's the only way they know how to deal with a male that refuses or is unable to portray confidence. It catches them off guard, so they revert to copy-catting the alpha men they have fucked before. They are suddenly thrust into the alpha role, a role they neither want nor understand. They unwittingly damage the beta's and omega's ego even further, and unlike the alpha males they are emulating, it does nothing for their libido and dries them up.

raceAround126 · 2014-10-14T22:12:53+00:00

One day, he will flip the table over and tell her to fuck off quite explosively.

I like 6:00 though... the Mom knows... Shit, the Mom knew. May as well find out the hard way, eh?

squirrelcuisine · 2014-10-15T15:16:20+00:00

So I have a 16 year old son that is (If I dont intervene) going to have a relationship just like this. Right now it is gaming and school (he is home schooled since 8th grade) He isnt interested in a Car and girls at the moment he is super nervous.

The thing is.. I dont want this to be him. Or if it is.. I want him to know what this is and know this is wrong and what the behavior is. Ive posted here quite a bit and Im scared as hell of the Millennial "girl" for my son. I have heard you guys describe the dating world and it is MUCH different than what i experienced 25 odd years ago when I took myself off the market. I found a red pill woman quite by accident 20+ years ago but I remember having dates like this early on. I bailed on them instantly not like the guys in the video. The friends shit.. ugh even if he does do that I want him to respect himself and know what this shit is so he knows it is wrong to let a woman treat him this way.

What do you guys think I should to to mentor my son? I dont want him to be a citizen of Hampsterdam. I feel like if i dont intervene he is going to be married to some bitch that is going to hen peck him. Im not truly sure but i see a lot of how i was initially before I started talking to girls. The nervousness etc.. The one positive is he is sarcastic and smart. I have taught him other lessons and I was surprised how fast he took to it. Funny thing is most of my friends live in female dominated relationships too with no direction. Im one of the rare ones at 40 years old. This shit scares me for my son.

Help me TRP you are my only hope.

trpSenator · 2014-10-15T06:33:43+00:00

Women aren't entitled to male friendship. She knows what she's doing, she knows it's wrong, yet it's socially okay. Yet if she was emotionally manipulating and exploiting him in any other way, it would be consider a form of abuse. How is it not in this case?

[deleted] · 2014-10-14T23:11:10+00:00

I couldnt't handle the cringe even 15 seconds in.

RebootedMale · 2014-10-15T02:59:46+00:00

That girl is going to suck so many cocks of guys that are mean to her in college.

Hopefully this gets posted in /r/relationships or 2XC or wherever the next time somebody says "just be yourself".

cocaine_face · 2014-10-14T22:02:17+00:00

Someone should figure out who he is and contact him, and show him the Redpill.

redpillbanana · 2014-10-15T04:49:43+00:00

At least at the end things seem to be looking up for him. He hasn't spoken to her since, he has a better demeanor, his hair is more masculine, and even his face looks like it has a more manly shape. Hopefully he's started exercising/lifting.

I'd like to think that the experience helped him find TRP or at least pushed him in that direction.

But yeah, watching her body language throughout the whole video is very telling, especially when he tries to hold her hands and she keeps them in fists.

luciansolaris · 2014-10-15T00:45:24+00:00

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ThousandTruths · 2014-10-14T22:41:42+00:00

And of course the guy is scrawny, ugly, with glasses, weak, nerdy, shit jaw, etc...what else would you expect. To top it all off the chick is fugly.

user_none · 2014-10-15T03:25:58+00:00

Seeing a video like this, and staged as it is, it highlights the very notion I often have in mind, and that is men are the romantics, the ones with true depth of emotion. Women have so much self interest at play they can't begin to comprehend how we, as men, can invest ourselves into the happiness of others and the joy it brings us.

And, of course, we learn that society has it all fucking wrong and that fairy tale comes crashing down. Some learn, some don't. Those that don't go on to be crushed over and over. Those that learn come here, or inadvertently stumble upon RP ideals in some fashion.

I cringe seeing this guy because that was me many years ago. The hopeless romantic, the undying love, the trusting confidant...gone.

unduescrutiny · 2014-10-14T22:21:11+00:00

Seeing this unredeemable loser having his heart crushed was very pleasurable.

The level of delusion needed to think that after being friendzoned for 5 years, "stepping up" and "declaring his love for her" is going to do anything other than make her feel awkward and bothered...

I don’t hold it against the girl at all that she wants to keep him around as a tampon. He’s free to fuck off at any time, and if he doesn’t wise up he deserves every second of self-imposed misery.

[deleted] · 2014-10-15T02:12:18+00:00

The red pill is confirmed further every day.

MajorMid · 2014-10-15T06:57:02+00:00

Even in my betaest of days I've never got the whole hang around and orbit a girl thing as a friend.

That said although he is pathetic I can't help but feel such empathy for him. Seeing him all sad and shit telling his sweet looking mom that he's not hungry...man that shit just eats my heart out.

That girl really isn't that good looking either. You would think that those two are pretty much equals to be perfectly honest. But she's out fucking much higher levels of guys and looking at the guy in the video like he aint shit. But I guess that's betas' fault. Such average looking women get pedestalized so much.

thinktankman · 2014-10-15T11:05:29+00:00

Call it fuckin cringezone

The kid doesn't look all that bad his problem is he doesn't lift, lack of confidence, and his mother buys him clothes

[deleted] · 2014-10-15T14:23:25+00:00

I got a laugh at the total lack of shock in his mother's voice when he told her the result of his decision.

drallcom3 · 2014-10-15T04:23:16+00:00

It's all staged btw. I'm just wondering what they're going to accomplish with that show. It's not the usual girl who picks one of three hot guys or gets pregnant at 16.

Flareprime · 2014-10-15T04:46:22+00:00

You might be a beta if: the girl you are in love with is picking out your clothes for you.

beaudee · 2014-10-15T15:24:20+00:00

Him caressing her face at 4:30 made me want to die.

Nex201 · 2014-10-15T15:42:36+00:00

Just watched it after coming home from work but wtf that chick is ugly man.

cover20 · 2014-10-15T17:34:30+00:00

At 4:50 when she said "you know my answer" all he had to do was pull her in and make the answer what he wanted. She really seemed undecided, and at that moment he blew it.

[deleted] · 2014-10-15T18:22:50+00:00

This girl will be hitting the wall hard. Come back and see her in fifteen years.

[deleted] · 2014-10-15T19:59:11+00:00

This show has RP truths in general. It almost sucks watching the girls ask out the guys because we generally know the answer is yes, unless the guy is alpha and is getting asked out by a known whore, or the guy is gay.The guys though is the best one to watch. When a guy is beta, it's almost always obvious what the answer will be. One guy who was a clear beta decided to ask his friend, who he decided to move in with out. She was clearly the dominant type who submitted to alphas. He's probably crying in his room every night when she gets banged out. One super beta white knight decided to ask his best friends recent ex girlfriend out because he's " tired of him always breaking her heart" and was "the right guy for her to love" .. The cunt lost 2 friends that day

[deleted] · 2014-10-15T20:07:39+00:00

Also, this guy looks like shit. If he hit the gym, picked out his own fucking clothes, get a decent haircut and wear contacts, I'm sure she'd atleast get a tingle..

slcjosh · 2014-10-15T06:20:34+00:00

Not to be a total hardo but if you're watching anything other than "ridiculousness" or "nitro circus" on mtv you're wasting time.

It's 100% scripted . Find something more worthwhile to draw trp influence from. Check out stand up comedy, read some books, play some sports, whatever.

Title	MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]
Author	pjewa
Upvotes	201
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Date	October 14, 2014 9:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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