note: This Guide is based mostly on reading TRP on a daily basis & personal observation. I believe this is a decent guide for new Rpwomen also. If your do not understand a word click on it and it's going to explain the term for you via urban dictionary. Also, non-native english speaker but I am trying:).

Summary: you can improve/skyrocket your SMV outside your appearance, by observing qualities that lack in the general female population and aquiring them.

Introduction: I read /r/TheRedPill on a daily basis and most men complain about the quality of 21st century women. Indoctrinated by feminism and mostly clueless about their role and biological engineering, today's women seem to embody "qualities" that men try avoiding at all cost. Let's see what men complain about:

  • Fat - women today are getting fatter because it's not pollitically correct to promote eating less (it also damages economy. people must consume. a lot. ). Fat women artificially increase the SMV of thinner women and inflate their ego.

  • Confrontational - women are taught to put men (and other women) in their place and never let men step on their pride. This leads to a defensive and aggressive demeanor, which is off-putting & replaces feminine demeanor.

  • Slutty - this is a very easy one. RP women are aware of the CC and it's limited tickets (to nowhere). Most women are not aware. They believe casual sex is "so cool" and by sleeping with a lot of men they see it as a "revenge" on the opposite gender. "You're using me for your pleasure? I'm using you, baby boy! Come here and show me what you're made of" thinks the empowered woman. That is NOT attractive.

  • Career-crazy - If you're fat/slutty/confrontational or all of the above, it's no wonder your personal life is a mess. Your standards are high and your SMV low, so career becomes your main focus. You try filling the void by making career a priority thinking it's going to make you a successful woman

  • Entitled - this is the main one I observed. Because we are born in a feminist climate, we are born entitled to EVERYTHING. I want to be equal to men, but pls open the door for me. I am very strong and independent, but I don't split the bill. I am a career woman, but I must conceive (biological clock) so let me engage in casual sex maybe somebody will commit. I deserve commitment even though I am not offering anything in return. Entitled to everything, the 21st century woman demands...demands...demands.

Body: As RP Women we are aware how much of our value is based on appearance. Well, as long as you do everything in your power to look good, you're good. Maybe even with your efforts you don't feel competitive enough in the Social/Sexaul Marketplace. It doesn't matter, because there are some VERY important qualities which are in HIGH demand. Acquiring these qualities will skyrocket your SMV. Beauty is rarity. There's no lack of beautiful women but there's a lack of feminine qualities and using this information wisely will make you extremely valuable, an asset to every quality man and to society.

  • Thin - This guide is not about appearance but I feel this needs to be said: Get thin the RP way! Men feel like we need to put so little work (compared to them) to look good. They must count calories, macros, lift, be disciplined, be long-term oriented. All we have to do to look good is eat less (or count calories). That's it.

  • Non - confrontational - this is so rare these days. I feel like all women are just waiting to engage in a verbal-fight at any moment. This may not be true, but the tone in their voice, the lack of kindness in their words is an indicator to that. If your tone is aggressive, make it honey-sweet. It works like a charm. I used to be a crazy/psycho aggressive girl when I was a teenager but your tone/attitude can be changed with practice. A girl watched too much Bad Girls Club and wants to put you in your place? Don't step to that low-level behaviour. You are going to meet a lot of people who deserve to be put in their place, who are going to try stepping on you and so on. The trick is to CONTROL your impulses and not act on them. The prize will be so much better than letting off steam in the heat of the moment. Think royalty. Think of a high-status lady and how she would never engage in confrontational behavior. That's what you should be aiming for. Because true ladies are very rare these days, this kind of demeanour is very appreciated by men and will make them respect you and value you.

  • Prude - If your partner count is low and you never engaged in casual sex, this is not a problem for you. But sluttiness comes from more than a high partner count. It comes from the appearance of "availability" and "easiness". You can look easy by dressing trashy and drinking alcohol like a man. Swearing, shouting and attention- seeking are also classic components of slutty behavior. Needless to say: DON'T DO THAT. Your aim should be to look pure and inocent - this means never engage in sexual conversations outside of your relationship (Note: My boyfriend pointed out to me how his coworker (f) started a discussion about condoms as a sexual strategy to get in his pants) , never be sexually-suggestive and don't showcase a dirty mind. These are for your bedroom only, and you know that. You'll stand out in the crowd like the most beautiful gem.

  • Financially stable - As a RPwoman you should aim for financial stability and a field of work which you are passionate about. A RPwoman is smart and knows that providing for yourself is an intelligent move, but she keeps balance. I read /r/RedPillWomen/ and I see a lot of discussions about how you should balance career & personal life and this subreddit is a great resource for information. Keep in mind: If you are impressed with a man's career achievements this does NOT means he is going to be impressed with yours. It does not work like that, so never use career in your sexual strategy.

  • Modest - You are not entitled to anything. I quote from TRP "Your purpose on this planet is to reproduce. You are NOT entitled to happiness, you do not deserve this or that. Be prepared to work for it but don't expect it or feel entitled to it". I completly agree with this view. Don't inflate your ego. Set your boundaries and your moral code and follow it. If a man does not provide you with what you feel you need, just leave. Do not make scenes about how you deserve this and that, do not expect him to love you and provide for you. Just keep working, improving yourself and be rational. TRP suggest women should lower standards, but I do not really agree with this. We (RPwomen) are a valuable asset to society by understanding our weaknesses and strengths. You should never lower standards as a Redpill woman as long as you are willing to WORK at your SMV. Realize you are not entitled to anything, but you are willing to WORK for everything.

A few mentions and tips:

  • On TRP a very common commentary is "A man will see a mountain and try climbing to the top. A woman sees a mountain and declares that the top is where she is".An examples is the fat acceptance movement. Instead of working to be fit and beautiful, women declare their current look (fat, overweight, rolls) attractive. Is it attractive? It does NOT matter! THEY SAY SO! Don't be like that (I'm sure you aren't), just be willing to accept your flaws and improve.

  • Keep your mental problems in check. No matter what tumblr says depression, bipolar disorder, psychosis etc ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE, romantic or intriguing. Present yourself as a perfectly sane person.

  • Don't drink, don't do drugs! Personally I do not consume alcohol at all, but I suppose drinking a glass of wine will not compromise your lady-like image. Men loathe women who engage in drugs and binge drinking. This is simply too common, trashy and low-value. Just don't...

  • Never be too radical in your views. Even if you own enough knowledge on a subject and a solid, strong opinion, the smart way is to keep it to yourself or share it with a pretty pretty... pretty package. Tone it down. I used to be so radical in my (political) views and I looked like a complete psycho. I am very passionate about a lot of things and so are you, but let's not let our views spoil a good climate and ruin our feminine frame.

Conclusion: Observe the marketplace and identify what it's lacking. Acquire qualities that other women seem to be oblivious to and skyrocket your SMV. Use your wits to be better. I read a thread on a forum once where men were discussing how unfeminine women are and how "Even if she's a 5, if she's feminine she's an 8 to me" . That's right. I read that even before knowing about TRP and it made so much sense. Study, observe, study, observe and never stop in your quest for becoming the best woman you can be.