So I’ve been dating this girl for a few months now (HB8) and she’s pretty ideal in almost every way. Very submissive, amazing body, never turns down sex unless she’s sore from the other sex we’ve had that day, comes from a great super religious family, is smart and somewhat introverted. The only issue is when she drinks.

She usually goes out most weekends (won’t be now that it’s summer break, she’ll just be drinking with her friends) and drinks a lot, and while I do the same, she turns into a very different person when she drinks. To a certain point she’s just like normal people when they drink, pretty much more outgoing and energetic, but after a certain point she gets very wack. She will be pretty incoherently blackout and say shit that makes no sense, or get super quiet and seem completely out of it. This doesn’t happen every time mind you, but it happens enough to get pissed. I’ve talked with her and she doesn’t seem to be making any changes.

Now normally it wouldn’t be the biggest deal, but this summer she’ll be hanging with her friend group from home, which includes one guy she used to “date” (they were never official and it was 2 years ago and they’re just friends now, although they apparently hooked up when they were both blacked on New Year’s Eve before we were dating) and another guy who she used to hookup with and still talks to a decent amount (they “haven’t done anything since November” and she told me multiple times before we dated that they were done, so I have no reason to think otherwise) but never really was romantically involved with.

I’m her first serious boyfriend/love, and she’s never felt this way about any other guy, i fuck her better than anyone, only guy to make her cum etc. I believe her as she has always kept it real and is a horrible liar that is super obvious the few times she has lied.

However given that she’s prone to doing stupid shit when she’s blacked, how do I talk to her to get her to chill? We both don’t want to fuck this up but her doing something stupid blacked out would effectively end the relationship for me.

TL;DR: girl is perfect except for super bad decision making when blacked out, how do I take preventative measures to stop her from potentially ruining our relationship which would be awful for both of us.