tl;dr Red Pill Theory focuses on inducing and maintaining female sexual attraction, but the applied theory (e.g. dread) is missing the underlying connective tissue - women have an attention drive, not a sex drive. If you want to maintain sexual attraction, learn to give the right type of attention (but not too much!).
What Makes a Woman Feel "Sexual"?
Anyone who reads the sidebar understands that the Game is all about FEELINGS. How you make her FEEL is the key to unwrapping every other aspect of attraction.
"Feelings" are temporary emotional states. They are also overwhelming, meaning at sufficient levels they take priority over the rest of the cognitive processes.
Female sexuality is REACTIVE - it's not the dull aching horniness that men experience. It is rapid-onset response to desirable male attention.
The price of male attention is sex. Sex is the glue that holds male attraction firmly in place. 1
Ipso facto women are willing to pay the sex price and a natural feedback loop is created; male attention makes her "sexual", the sex engenders more attention from the male, the attention makes her FEEL "sexual", and so on.
They fuck because they want to FEEL sexual. Not because they want sex.
What Do Women THINK Makes Them Feel Sexual?
Who cares. Ask 10 of them once a day for a week and get 19182 different responses. Listen to their advice and get 0 sex.
What Motivates Women vs. Men to Play This Game?
I don't buy the line that "women are natural Machiavellians/She's always planning the next branch swing/etc.".
Her goal is to maximally exploit her youth (in other words beauty) for maximal desirable male attention.
Can this take the form of a conniving woman, ready to trade up at the next possible chance? Sure. But that is a SYMPTOM and not a CAUSE.
Men want to fuck for fucking's sake. Some trade resources and their dignity for this (gradually rarer) privilege - we call them beta males. Others learn to exploit the desire for their attention. Be the latter guy.
Men's goal is sexual variety.
The Breakdown - Why Women Leave
Ultimately, whether through fault of the man or woman, the cycle of attention stops.
Men who break the cycle generally stop giving the girl "sexy" attention. This can be the result of him becoming unattractive physically 2, but more often the man fails to make her FEEL seduced.
His attention shifts from "sexy" to "expecting" - this makes the girl FEEL...at best nothing, at worst like she is doing work. What used to be motivating attention has been replaced by a demand for service. Wrong kind of attention.
Cheating happens when some other guy steps in and gives her that seductive attention again, making her FEEL sexy. She might fuck him then, she might not. BUT the relationship enters Stage 4 Terminal Cancer at that point.
You may hear "I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you" at this point 3. Scrap it and move on.
Attention in Context of TRP Terms
Let's re-frame a few core concepts from applied (things you do) to theory (abstract thought that creates broader understanding).
Dread is reminding a woman your "sexy" attention is always for sale, not overtly stating you will fuck other women
The 3/2 rule is meant to stifle inappropriate outflows of your time and resources aka limitation creates mystery, it is not a math equation
Pre-selection and social proof are when other women competing for YOUR attention increases its perceived value
I could go on - the point is the underpinning theme is provisioning and framing of attention.
Conclusions
Women do not have a sex drive - they respond sexually to desirable male attention
Never rely on a woman to tell you what makes her FEEL sexual - especially not one you are fucking
Males desire sexual variety, women desire maximal exploitation of their youth and beauty for attention
Women cheat when they stop getting the sexy kind of attention - this PERMANENTLY prevents your attention from being "sexy" ever again
Footnotes
Throughout the post there are footnotes of side observations. Each references a specific problem in the modern SMP. Here they are in order.
Men giving away attention for free in never before seen quantities - Remember how I said the price for male attention is sex? This dynamic is fucking that up - attention is available in mass quantity without the old cost.
There's a reason our advice starts at "lift" - there's no excuse to be physically unattractive - Don't lose the game because you didn't learn the basics. Keep it simple.
Reinvesting in a dying or dead relationship - Don't go looking in the dumpster. You'll only find trash. Roll around in there and that smell will be stuck on your for awhile.
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I miss these kinda posts, straight to the point, no moralizing, just plain and simple.
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I agree, though this pastor is a protestant, not a traditional like in orthodox catholicism.
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This is idiotic nonsense.
If this were true, women would never masturbate. I've also known plenty of women who get horny and go out looking for a random hook-up, not in reaction to some man turning her on.
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No one said desire for masturbation was sex drive. However, if I masturbate, my desire to copulate with other people is temporarily satiated. Saying there is no link between the two is certainly indicative of a sub-100 iQ.
If you think that women don't have sex for the physical pleasure of having sex, then I expect you haven't had that much real contact with women. Let me know when you grow up and actually experience the world a bit, oh anonymous teenage red-pill internet master.
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A few days ago I bumped into a good friend of mine, we decided to have a lunch. After lunch we went to her place to fuck. It was great and she was horny and wet as hell. Later that day she admitted that she masturbated 4 times before we met.
I also remember that my ex used to get horny and to masturbate like crazy before I came home. We'd have hot and long sex after that, and she didn't seem to be "pre-satiated" from all that self-pleasure.
So for once I know that sometimes women do get horny and just want to fuck. But I also know that masturbating does not satiate them, if they want to fuck, they will, no matter if they masturbated 2 seconds ago and came 5 times.
Kinda a little bit of truth in both of your words.
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If you have to go into someones post history to support your argument you have a poor argument. We're talking about the core of a woman's being and you have the audacity to call me stupid for questioning your brand new fairy tail premise.
We're not talking about the color of peoples skin. We're talking about basic structure of existence. Yet this EC doesn't mention the laborious literature documenting the female and male libido alike. Lets disregard freud because muh experience... I don't have the time to explain why this is wrong.
So since you haven't addressed my point I walk you through it like a special needs teacher walking a herd of retards to safety. Don't worry I protect you from your own arrogance. I wont fuck you as hard as your shitty education did.
So if women don't have a sex drive them how come lesbians exists? Are they symbolically viewing the leader in the relationship as a high value male tricking her hind brain? I don't know. Thats where OP is supposed to explain his position. Are lesbians just that different that they have a sex drive unlike other women????? How is this possible?
What about gay guys? Do they not care about reproduction because they're fucking guys? Does that mean they don't have a sex drive?
Is sex drive just this fictitious thing the bluepill created? Is sex drive a social construct? Is sex drive just derived from hormones? If so does a women suddenly have a sex drive if you shoot her up with steroids? How about we raise a women in the wild separated from all civilization. If a women masturbates in the woods does she have a sex drive? Does she view the tree as a high value guy? Does she literally branch swing from tree to tree shoving twigs up her twat?
Or maybe OP is wrong. If OP's point is that women's sexual drive is reactive then he would be right. Just as mine is reactive to a cute girl.
See I don't believe that this post is entirely wrong, but ignoring the blaring holes in this theory is just the red pill jerking itself off.
Also don't think i didn't notice you just reiterated your point above without addressing mine like the intellectual dwarf you are. No I had no idea what a statistical outlier is or what constitutes it... Alpha is a statistical outlier. An iq of 140 is a statistical outlier. A body fat of 10% is a statistical outlier. Yet we don't disregard it's existence because its an outlier. You're being ingenue in your gesture of 'accuracy'.
See i don't need to look at your post history to confirm your stupidity. Your argument makes it evident.
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Have you ever met a woman before? Women absolutely have a sex drive. This sub has really gone to shit, my god. I know plenty of women that are practically perverts. The idea of having sex with anyone gets them off. They aren't attention seeking, just looking to bust an ovary. What you say is true in cases but it's not a damned rule so don't present it as such.
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Women have a sex reservoir rather than a sex drive. It is latent unless they can find a man who will take it from them (notice I said take). Women can be much hornier than men but it is up to the man to bring it out in her. Once you are the sort of man that women want to open them up then you have access to sex virtually in tap. A man with options knows just how sexual women want to be but you need to be the one who allows her to give it up. She will never come up and just offer it to you.
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Guys, notice how all the Endorsed Contributors are wholeheartedly approving this post. The next non-pointed/EC top comments are about National Geographic, fuckDisney, and her sexual cycle. These are the people you should be listening to, don't let the upvotes on the "but women still sex drive" crowd who obviously Just (Don't) Get It
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