There exists the idea of dual mating strategy with women, aka women having sex/relationships for 2 reasons. Which is:

  1. an attractive man for (hot) sex and/or fun (Looks);
  2. an good provider man for resources, protection, safety, security (Money and Status).

Imo, it's not necesairily dualistic. And women would prefer to find it in 1 man, both great looks and great provider. But due to that being rare, they have to and do find it in different men. Hence people thinking that women can't make up their mind.

I saw this video on Youtube. An interview of Russian women. And this dual mating strategy seemed very present and obvious there. Hence I wanted to share it.
Since in Russia resources, protection, safety, security are much more important to have (due to more scarcitity and violence there then in the West). Women from Russia value the provider part more.

Video (please ignore the annoying interviewer constantly expressing his opinions based on the western world situation and spiritual nonsense concepts): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWHedf01JEQ

Also funny to see, how this woman says, or thinks, that Western men like Russian women for their feminity.
Imo, it's mostly that an normie or nor so attractive Western man can date at or above his looksmatch with "provider game". Hence Western men Russian women for that reason. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWHedf01JEQ&t=570

I think, this may be a possible temporairy cope, for men whom aren't attractive and are incel in the Western world. Play the provider game in countries where provider skills are found important by women; pay/spend/give alot of money basically. And you may have a woman by your side for some time and have sex, that is better or equally looking then you. You'll have spend alot probably, but it's an temporairy option.