As a young elementary school-aged boy, I didn't understand girls. They seemed different. I gravitated towards other boys I could be friends with, and girls typically made friends with other girls. I didn't actively hate girls, but I didn't actively pursue/desire girls either. Girls were simply there.

Then when puberty hit, things changed. I started to look at girls differently. A phenomenon occurred that I never experienced before—I’d want to look at girls all day. I didn't know why, but for some reason I always liked to look at this one girl with long, dark brown hair who sat in front of me. I also liked to look at this other girl who always wore this really cute skirt. And then there this other girl who had long legs and wore short shorts, and I really liked looking at her. Of course, once I had sex education, I better understood what was happening. I realized that I needed to control myself. I understood and accepted that staring at most girls in my class was considered rude and that I should not do it, so I stopped.

Then I started middle school, and later high school. Girls dressed more provocatively, and at my high school, where a dress code was enforced, some girls were sent home on some days for wearing clothes that were too skimpy. I learned how to catch quick glances at girls for only a brief few seconds, and taught myself to be satisfied just looking at a girl for a mere few seconds rather than staring for a full minute like I used to do in elementary school.

Of course, since I had the feminist doctrine that men and women are equal and forever will be equal in all respects and manners whatsoever shoved down my throat, I thought girls were going through something similar. I thought that girls were finding most guys attractive, staring at most guys during their elementary school years, and learning how to catch quick glances without being obvious.

I was wrong.

You see, it’s definitely true that girls find guys attractive. I’m sure that at some point they stared at guys. I’m also willing to accept that they’ve learned how to catch quick glances at men while remaining unsuspecting.

But there’s one thing I did not correctly understand about women until I swallowed TRP, which by now I’m sure most of you are familiar with: girls do not find most guys attractive. This point is critical to understanding why girls lack self control.

When a typical man finds most girls in the same room he is in attractive, he is forced to control his thoughts and sexual desire. You cannot actively have those thoughts in your head because it is too strong to control with so many young women in the same setting as you are in. Young men naturally acquire a sense of self-control simply because they have to control their own sexuality. /u/monsieurhire2 describes it really well:

As a man, I've come to terms with the fact that I'll have "intrusive" fantasies about pretty much every woman I meet who is somewhat attractive. Am I going to fuck them all? No. Would I fuck them all if I could? No, it wouldn't be a good idea.

Having that kind of sexual desire pent-up is frustrating for young men, so they look for release. Invariably, a lot of men in high school go to pornography. It’s quick, easily accessible, takes little effort, and helps release that sexual desire. A lot of young men masturbate in the privacy of their own homes.

Women don’t do this. They don’t find most men attractive, so they don’t get the same urges that young men get as often. Women never experience being in a classroom, during ages 11 – 14 and finding about 75% of the guys in that room attractive. They just don’t, and women never will.

And I’m not vilifying them for that, but I am saying that because they don’t go through that, they don’t have self control.

During their high school years they don’t feel the same kind of sexual desire that young men do. Young men are not attractive to these women. They seek power, status, alpha-ness, etc, which most high schoolers don’t have. The only guys they find attractive are the stereotypical football jocks, and/or those that are naturally good looking and tall. Women don’t masturbate as much as men because they don’t feel the urge to do so. Remember, for women, most guys are unattractive. Why would they go home everyday to release pent-up frustration when only the same six guys are attractive while everyone else are pathetic losers in their eyes?

So what happens?

Well, when a man tries to pursue a woman for sex and succeeds, he feels accomplished. He feels happy. He says to his buddy, Score! because for men it is a success to finally be able to act on that desire by landing a night with a woman.

Women simply cannot relate to this. When a woman wants to have sex with a man, her game plan is this: exist.

And you know what, it works. All women have to do to have sex is exist. Provided they haven't failed at life by being a total fatass, the only ‘work’ they need to do is wear something that is flirtatious but not too slutty, doll up with some make up, and sit at a bar stool. Women complain about how tiresome it is, but in reality, they can get this done in 10 minutes. 15 minutes tops. The reason they spend 2-4 hours doing this is because they are too emotional—they spend 1-2 hours deciding what outfit looks good, all the while bitching and moaning about how it’s not perfect and then they spending another 1-2 hours putting on make up, removing it, putting it on again to make it just right, complaining about how it wasn’t put on properly, and then bitching some more for the hell of it.

So after a woman spends a gruesome, physically and mentally exhausting 2-4 hours of wearing clothes they just bought from Nordstrom and putting on makeup, all they do is go a bar and sit there. And a man approaches them. And she finds him attractive, they have sex. From a woman’s point of view, sex “just happened” because she literally went there, and didn’t actively do anything. She got gamed by the guy. She became infatuated by the guys appearance and attitude. She was surprised by “how different” he was. Notice how all the actions I mentioned are operated on her.

/u/monsieurhire2 describes it well again:

Women, however, are used to getting sex when they want it. Most women I know don't masturbate much . . . because they can get sex! When I tell them that masturbation is preferable to dangerous or destructive sex, they don't seem to grasp the concept. Sex has become masturbation for them, and they use guys as masturbatory aids!


Today, we are noticing that women are more and more slutty. They are jumping on the cock carousel. Why is this? It’s because they don’t have self-control. Women have sexual desire just like men have, but it’s easier for them to act on it, and because it makes them feel goodTM, they act on it.

A lot of men would love to sleep with multiple women, and some are able to (while most are not). Of course, women would love to sleep with multiple (hot) men, the difference being that most are able to (while very few are not). Men understand that they need to control their desires. When a really hot girl walks by, the primal, instinctual part of the male brain kicks in and brings sexual desire to the front of the mind. Do you act on such desire? No, of course not, because the rational, intellectual part of your brain reminds you that that would be considered rape (actual rape mind you, not SJW rape) and is illegal and will land you in prison.

Women don’t go through this kind of thought process. When they see a really hot guy, they think oh my god I want to have sex with him. This is the same for men, but the difference is the immediately following thought: okay, I’m going to have sex with him. She thinks, therefore she feels, therefore she approaches, therefore she has sex, therefore she is. Women don’t suppress their desires because they don’t need to—they can have sex whenever they want, and they will use that to have sex whenever they want it.

TL;DR Women simply lack self-control. They are not put into a situation where they find 75% of the surrounding men attractive, and so they do not experience being bombarded with sexual thoughts in their lifetime. They aren’t used to suppressing their desires, because they don’t get the same kind of sexual frustration that men get. When women want release, all they have to do is find a guy and they can have sex. Girls are slutty nowadays because they lack self control and ride the cock carousel, acting on their feelings constantly without thinking about potential consequences.