I don’t often go to clubs or bars I usually go to restaurant/bar places. I was in one last night and saw numerous failed approaches conversations. Usually a guy would walk near a girl and wait for a response. I surmised that statistically speaking someone who has worked as a bartender has probably observed thousands of approaches of different types. If you are an ex bartender what works best in your opinion? What crazy shit have you seen that actually worked?

I am not asking on a pickup Reddit because those suck and want the TRPed scoop.