This will be kind of difficult to explain but Im trying to keep it short.

> had ~ 1 year long affair with a women

> not like any other plate, we did also relationship shit

> found out that she had a BF while fucking with me (took some time, had to dig really deep as it wasnt really obvious)

> relationship was shit though, they basically just lived together till they moved out into a new flat, she said she didnt even fuck with him anymore (yeah you know whatever)

> have to say at the time we had the affair I wasnt RP yet, typical beta / orbiter behaviour, felt like Im reading about myself when I read the Rational Male. Basically every mistake made and as she also is a bit older than me she took full advantage of that

I assume she rode the CC hard in her past from all the stories she told me at the beginning (like that she used to put Gopros all over her room to make sextapes, having sex with women, having sex with one men and multiple women)

but she was the greatest I ever had in bed.

Like a fn pornstar, she would let me do everything, I miss that since.

Long story short, she found a new "BF" (lol), then said we cant move on like this anymore because now she is exclusive and I was like okey yeah whatever but then fuck off Im not interested in a friend ship that is stupid.

Since then she always hit me up time after time to go for a walk.

All this events happened in a larger time span, so when we quit our thing it was like 4 weeks till she wrote me again, now its like over one year after that and we met up couple of times in between just for casual walks.

Went there a few times, I was not like a orbiter or anything, I did not care about any of her problems she did not even told me about them. Since Im unplugged now I feel way more power in confronting her.

I basically used the opportunity to meet up with her as learning experience for pua techniques (like push / pull) and TRP thinking, it helped me a lot.

Thing is I dont know how I should handle this from now on, Im pretty sure I can fuck her again, she even sent me nudes again at one point and talked about making out with me again (which we never did because I thought its a mistake)

I dont know if she is in a relationship or anything but what the fuck is it in a girl that she still wants to meet me?

Is it just hypergamous behaviour, like having me as side plate?

My goal is to have at least 3 plates at the end of the year, as I was a bit busy the last couple of weeks I only managed to have one where the sex isnt as half as good as with her.

Should I, although when she met me I was this beta/orbiter idiot, approach her and use her as a simple plate again?

No emotions at all, this time I make the rules, just sex, I say when and where - if she doesnt have time then fuck off.

Bit confused here