Title speaks for itself. Women love to be intrigued. They like it when you play with the depths of their mind.
There’s a caveat, though. They can’t know you’re playing with their mind.
Why is it stressed time and time again that you shouldn’t be a nice guy? Why is it stressed time and time again that you shouldn’t put a woman on the pedestal? Besides obvious reasons that date way back to our creation, it’s because the female will get bored.
Forget about women wanting to fuck the leader of the camp for a second. OK? Girls get bored. The same way you’d get bored of a girl that did nothing but flatter you. The type of girl that you already know you could have. Those are the types of girls you don’t go for. Whether it be because she’s so bad nobody else wants her, or because she’s psycho, you stay away. If not for those reasons, eventually, you will get bored of her. Even if you don’t, females are different.
It’s similar to the effect of a rollercoaster. There’s a sense of impending doom - you know that this is dangerous and that it could end badly, but it looks so safe and you want to know what it feels like. When you learn how to make a woman say that about you, you’ve got her. I saw a post about the ‘alarming rise of choking during sex’. It’s not alarming at all. It’s the same concept.
Back to the mystery: when you’re a mysterious man, the girl knows nothing about you. Not only is she more drawn into you because you’re mysterious and she wants to learn more about you; the girl has no true way of gauging whether or not you’re dangerous. Even if you’re the biggest pussy in the world, with mystery, you could keep that tension going by maintaining mystery.
This was a challenge for me. I’m a very outspoken individual. I like to talk. The challenge for me was keeping my mouth shut. I started to listen more. When you’re mysterious, and you keep your mouth shut, the person you’re engaging in conversation with is probably gonna reveal more about themselves, giving you:
a) more insight on the person b) possible things to talk about
There are a few caveats, though. Don’t confuse ‘mysterious’ with weird. You should still talk, communicate, and act like a normal person. Just don’t give up your whole hand. Make her find out who YOU are. That’ll keep her along for the ride. Also, if this wasn’t clear enough, you should be mildly attractive. That’s the defining line between ‘mysterious’ and ‘weird.’
