I came home from a 3 day seminar recently and was feeling randy. My wife, on the other hand, had a litany of complaints and I patiently listened for a couple of minutes as we got ready for bed.

Then I started to escalate, and being a Red Pill kind of guy I assumed the close.

In fact, I may have escalated a bit quickly when I picked up my wife, threw her down on the bed, and fell on top of her. I started kissing her and she struggled cutely for about a second and then she twisted away and I heard, "Wait, what are you doing, oh no! Red, RED, RED!"

Red happens to be our "safe" word and even though I have never heard it before, of course I immediately stopped, literally at the breach.

My wife looked up at me with a considerable amount of open mouthed incredulity while I looked down at her with amusement and then calmly rolled off. I sat on the edge of the bed and took her hands gently.

My wife looked at me with wide eyes and said in a near awed whisper: "You...you were going fuck me right then."

I smiled and nodded my head: "Yes."

She was starting to regain her bearings and responded after a few breaths, "OK, I, I, just wasn't expecting that. God you are so crazy. You are like a bull in a china shop."

Letting go her hands I stood up and made to kiss her again but turned it into a paternal peck on the forehead. Then I smiled grimly and told her, "that is the first time you used that safe word and you know what that means, right?"

"No, what?"

"That all sexual activity stops for the night. I guess I will go take a cold shower." As I made my exit from the bedroom I could hear my wife sputtering and cursing like anything but a lady.

"Wait, what the hell? What the fuck are you talking about? Where are you...oh you have got to be shitting me. Seriously? You fucking bastard..."

I went to take a hot shower and I won't go into the details but, of course, she picked the lock to the bathroom even before the water got hot. I only protested a little bit because she assured me that we had never actually agreed to no sexual activity for the rest of the night if the safe word was used. I let her blow me in the shower but it drove her absolutely crazy that I would not do PnV. She rubbed her pussy on my leg and I finished her off with my fingers while she finished me off. Next day we took care of the PnV when I threw her down exactly the same way and she sighed contentedly.

TLDR: Wife denies sex at the breach by using safe word. Husband demonstrates Amused Mastery and she gets super horny. AWALT. Whether it is a 20+ year marriage or a one night stand, Red Pill works.