I had a big Halloween Costume Party at my house, and the 20-something neighbor decided wander over and join us.

She's a cute girl, petite and dressed like a hippie. She instantly became my favorite girl at the party, being that she was unknown to me and could carry on some good conversation. We hung out until early morning and she headed home.

I invited her over for a beer two nights later.

We hung out, talked some interesting topics and got to know each other better. When she decided it was time to leave, I didn't escalate or offer an alternative. I wasn't entirely sure if she was interested, and wanted to put off any escalation until she came over again.

Well, she did the work for me and texted me when she got home professing that she wished she could sleep in my bed with me. I said "Do it. Front door is unlocked."

5 minutes later she was in my bedroom, and it was on.

We made out, did some light dry-humping and she stopped to tell me "We're not having sex tonight."

I replied "Sex? Who said anything abo-- ohhh you have a dirty mind.."

And continued the affair. More making out, a little bit of earplay (which she responded to by tightly clinching her legs around my waist - BINGO), some clothes off and again "We're not having sex tonight."

"I know."

More and more making out, some fingering and oral teasing, and I started to get a great sense of what she liked. She commented "Oh my god it's going to be so great when you're inside me."

So this goes on for about 45 minutes, until I go down on her and she returns the favor. At that point, we were both completely naked and she says "Where are your condoms?"

An hour or so of quality sex later, she's getting dressed to head back home and she says "Well, it looks like my persistence failed."

With a kiss and a slap on the ass, I walked her to the door.


Lessons:

She brought up her ex-boyfriend earlier that night, and I saw him on Facebook. He was about her size, hipster-looking and no muscle. I'm 6'2, around 215lbs, and a regular lifter. When she confessed that she wanted to come over, she also said "You're built the way I want a man to be."

Later, while we were having sex and I was throwing her around like a ragdoll, she commented "I love the way you handle me the way I wished my ex would."

  1. Lift weights you shitlords. Even this liberal, hippie girl who has a past of dating a liberal, hippie dude was all about the masculine features I have. Being able to pick her up effortlessly, throw her around, hold her against the wall; it's a thing of beauty. Stop making excuses about not lifting. Get strong.

  2. Sex God game. I haven't read the literature, but I've taken up the philosophy. I set the pace and tone of the sexual relationship during round one. Pick the girl up, wrap her hair in your hand and pull during doggy-style, throw her around a bit, hit it HARD, pin her wrists down, bite her (some girls might not like this.. I've never had negative feedback). The more you treat her like a sex doll, the better. Be fucking aggressive when fucking. They don't want you to ask if you can pull their hair. Fucking do it.

  3. That Last Minute Resistance / "We're Not Having Sex Tonight" test is passable, and it is a test. I never argued it. I simply agreed and amplified, and continued the physical escalation. I slowly worked into more intimate play. We ended up having great sex, and due to the extended foreplay, I had one of the hardest orgasms I have ever had (which when I told her completely turned her on). And her final comment was basically a "Good job, you passed my test."

  4. Bonus Lesson: Many times she referred to the sexiness of my beard. I recommend, if you can, to try out facial hair. In my experience, it's like an instant SMV increase.

Good luck out there guys!

TL;DR: Hippie girl confesses she likes masculinity, likes being manhandled and offers last minute resistance to sex. We sex anyway.