Currently reading meditations by Marcus Aurelius and many of the things he is saying about how external indifferences cause no effect to us, it's only our interpretation of them that cause us harm.
In a way this is the same as frame? Like we're told when a woman shit tests us to agree and amplify and not to react to her. Like her actions are an external indifference, we can't control them but we can only control ourselves and remain unfazed.
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