I'm an introvert and definitely not the kind of guy who goes around the party screaming and dancing like mad.

I don't drink in general so that doesn't help either. And I don't even like clubbing unless the music matches with my taste (rare thing).

My game is a low-energy one, which definitely fits day game more. If anyone knows the strong silent type of guy, that might help to describe my attitude.

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I don't want you to confuse silent with shy. I can open groups of girls and people easily, but as I said, I'm not the party guy. Probably because I don't drink? I actually feel like most of those "party guys" wouldn't be so extroverted if they didn't drink anything.

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In fact, I remember in the past when I used to drink I was actually much more outgoing and social.

Might be because when I'm drunk I stop giving a fuck about women and just focus on having fun. That's the only benefit for me of drinking.

But I feel like drinking is a shortcut to improve your social skills. And we all know shortcuts do not exist.

I also lift and drinking just makes me lose self-respect, unless it's just one-two drink once in a while.

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I'm going on vacation in a few weeks and thougth about going to a boat party, which seemed interesting.

But not gonna lie, my main goal is to improve my game and get laid in there.

I'm not sure if that's a great bet to go there just to approach chicks. I know in general it's bad to go out with the primary goal of getting laid. Correct me if I'm wrong.

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I also read that clubbing is awful to get laid as women go there for validation and is generally hard to isolate and fuck them. So imagine clubbing in a boat. Logistics would be just shit. The option of fucking in a bathroom seems the only one. But how common is that? I guess not much. I'm not at that level, yet.

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Does anyone have experience with Boat Parties in general?

Should I rather stick to pubs and bars? Thank you.