Hello! Recently, I started working out and eating less to get rid of some extra fat, bought some feminine clothes and started caring for my hygiene a lot more than I used to. I also started talking to some old friends in order to rebuild my social circle and immediately began to feel like a prettier, much better version of myself. There's only one problem: My mother. I have a feeling that she's trying to do everything to discourage me from changing. When she found out that I want to lose 3kg. this month (I weigh 58kg. at the moment, however, in my country, most girls my age and height weigh 50-55kg.), she accused me of having anorexia, "adjusting to men" and tried to convince me that I should weigh at LEAST 60kg., because that is the only way to attract a decent guy that won't ditch me after a week of dating (Which is strange, because I hardly ever see alfa-acting 9/10's going on dates with overweight girls. Also, the floor for casual sex is lower than for relationships in the case of guys). When she saw me wearing a dress (which wasn't even revealing), I immediately got called a whore whose only ambition is to have males staring at her. I understand that she wants what she thinks is best for me. That she might be concerned of my mental health. I also don't want our relationship to suffer even more than it did over the last year. However, recently, when I hear such comments, I'm starting to wonder if she's actually right... What's the best way to avoid caring about what other people tell you and not get discouraged from reaching your goals (becoming a 7/10 by the end of school, both look- and character-wise)?
[–]adiafrazier54 points55 points56 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]redandpearls2 Stars46 points47 points48 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sobinia[S] 18 points19 points20 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]EnemyAsmodeus13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]JohnPettimore28 points29 points30 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LadySylwia67 points68 points69 points (7 children) | Copy Link
[–]CorpseProject5 points6 points7 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]LadySylwia1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]CorpseProject1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]LadySylwia0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]meetinnovatorsadrian7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]LordDunderhead1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EnemyAsmodeus1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Nrmn9027 points28 points29 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]catipillar4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]shitposterkatakuri18 points19 points20 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]est-la-lune7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]digitalfrost6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BlkShp882 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Sobinia[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Fridgemagnetman2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]slynn24 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]azrael3194 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FeatherBandTwist1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]dbdecade0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HB32343 Stars0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sobinia[S] 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]HB32343 Stars0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BlkShp880 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link