Hello! Recently, I started working out and eating less to get rid of some extra fat, bought some feminine clothes and started caring for my hygiene a lot more than I used to. I also started talking to some old friends in order to rebuild my social circle and immediately began to feel like a prettier, much better version of myself. There's only one problem: My mother. I have a feeling that she's trying to do everything to discourage me from changing. When she found out that I want to lose 3kg. this month (I weigh 58kg. at the moment, however, in my country, most girls my age and height weigh 50-55kg.), she accused me of having anorexia, "adjusting to men" and tried to convince me that I should weigh at LEAST 60kg., because that is the only way to attract a decent guy that won't ditch me after a week of dating (Which is strange, because I hardly ever see alfa-acting 9/10's going on dates with overweight girls. Also, the floor for casual sex is lower than for relationships in the case of guys). When she saw me wearing a dress (which wasn't even revealing), I immediately got called a whore whose only ambition is to have males staring at her. I understand that she wants what she thinks is best for me. That she might be concerned of my mental health. I also don't want our relationship to suffer even more than it did over the last year. However, recently, when I hear such comments, I'm starting to wonder if she's actually right... What's the best way to avoid caring about what other people tell you and not get discouraged from reaching your goals (becoming a 7/10 by the end of school, both look- and character-wise)?