TRP was never meant to be misogynistic, really a big part of taking the pill is understanding women’s differences and loving them for it. Much of the “anger phase” is men trapped by their own solipsism, a result of being raised to believe that men and women are the same. TRP teaches that this isn’t true, but the idea is so ingrained that it takes a while to make sense of women’s unique minds without the prejudice of their own mind, and at first will lead them to see women as an inferior derivative of man.
The main lesson is that it is logical for women to act illogically, and rational for women to act irrationally. Accept that and it should no longer bother you... in time it should turn endearing. Stop asking “why do women do that?” Stop acting as if “women are flawed because otherwise they‘d think just like me.” I would not say this typically, but often it is best to think of a woman like a child: a smart parent is not visibly angered when their kid smears shit on the couch, instead they clean it up without reacting and take responsibility for correcting the kid and preventing future misbehavior. Women, like children, are very attached to their emotions and rely on them to interpret reality. They depend on stoicism, consistency, and boundaries, otherwise called “frame,” provided by a strong man. These relationships foster tons of confidence in both the man and the woman. The man is proud to be trusted “as the man,” while the woman is proud that she has a man she can trust. The man guides his woman and helps her grow, while the woman supports her man by never underestimating the power of appreciation and approval (this isn’t BP.. most men are deeply hurt when a woman they’re close with questions their judgement).
Now consider that if instead of defining the frame for her, you had to jostle for it like with other men? Or that, like a close male friend, the woman is virtuously independent and would leave the relationship to pursue her goals, mostly as a matter of principle? Or how about the “mind games?” Well Machiavellian tactics are far from a female trait.. really men DO play mind games and they are never in good spirit. Woman mostly play their games for entertainment, and you can participate for entertainment as well. Don’t take them seriously and they become fun and satisfying like a puzzle. Tease them and keep them just as on their toes as you. And of course there is the distinct wave of confidence and self-love that accompanies even the briefest moments of connection with girls (“connection” = sexual tension basically). All this - the good and the bad - are inseparable traits of femininity. None of it inherently inferior to masculinity... they are an elegantly balanced pair of opposing forces and equally necessary for maintaining a healthy society. There are no useful examples of female-led, anti-masculine societies in history, which speaks for itself. On the other hand, brutal fascist regimes are almost always composed of a 100% male government, masculinity (particularly strength) is held as the highest virtue, and woman are prevented from holding any positions of power or importance. Balance in everything...
It is no different than the angry feminists... solipsism blinds them to the reality of gender and breed a hateful mentality in which men are simply the inferior form of women. A woman’s place in society is not determined by her honor or courage, for example, and as such the female kindergarten teacher cannot understand why the boys in her class are always fighting. In her mind demonstrating cowardice has no consequences, and because she is under the impression that her brain is wired identically to the boy’s (or worse - that her life experience will mirror a man’s) she is aghast at their senseless violence. “Why do boys act like this? I would never act like that, therefore they are acting unreasonably.” She concludes that the boy’s are sadly just immature, their instinctive masculinity an unfortunate malfunction which she will work dutifully to correct.
Note to The Community:
This started as a comment but I think it might me a pretty good post. It is way too long for a comment anyways haha. I’ve never posted here before on any account but I’ve been around TRP for 4 years and have grown pretty disillusioned with the constant low-quality, “perma-anger phase” posts in which pathetic, hateful opinions are shared as theories/TRP knowledge. That shit needs to get called out with comments condemning the ideas expressed in the OP + downvotes or it’ll only get worse. “Red Pill” has become synonymous with “incel” in mainstream Reddit despite TRP officially standing for literally the exact opposite values. TRP is not a place to victimize yourself, blame others, moan about genetics, etc. TRP is about understanding that if you’re struggling to get laid - if you’re “involuntarily celibate” - then you’ve got to change, not expect women to. TRP is about mourning what you weren’t given, cherishing what you were given, and working to mold yourself into the best version you can be. Let me know if I’m coming across as a narcissistic asshole, but this is a post that fits TRP and - unlike much of the new content - would’ve still been well regarded 3-4 years ago.
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