Her: Hey, I know you probably dont care, I wish I was like that ....
Her: if i go have dinner with someone who is a whatever , would it bother you?
Me: define someone who is a "whatever"
Her: I met this guy b4 we met, we just went out for drinks but i tried to hook him up with my friend instead , right now hes in the city for work reasons .
This is the first time she has ever asked something like thjis in 2 years, its a perfect situation to set boundaries , but what the fuck should I say? Ive never had to respond to something like this lol
it feels like a slap to the face what she is asking .
how would you respond if your ltr for the first time said something like this, would you set boundaries? what would you say?
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