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Consideration may not be inherently weak beta behaviour, but in a culture where women's perceived SMV is much higher than men's, nothing dries up a vagina faster than trying to butter her up.

The more weak-ass men there are out there, the more your girls are going to watch you to make sure you aren't one. The more of these things you do, the more they will suspect you are.

Women don't want be treated awesome by someone nice, they want to be treated okay by someone awesome.

Don't be nice. Be awesome. The only safe way you can be nice to a woman is to give her the awesomest possible version of you to be with.